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The body, nature of sexuality and the erotic
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The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and FulfillmentThe Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin
Buy new: $12.41 / Used from: $6.75
This is my favorite book for understanding the psychology of sex and sexual fantasy. It is a must-have resource for anyone seriously trying to understand sexual behavior and the paradoxes involved.
The Hite Report: A National Study of Female SexualityThe Hite Report: A National Study of Female Sexuality by Shere Hite
Buy new: $13.95 / Used from: $6.07
A very broad and comprehensive study on female sexuality with many quotes from participants which illuminate various aspects of female sexuality.
The Evolution Of Desire - Revised Edition 4The Evolution Of Desire - Revised Edition 4 by David M. Buss
Buy new: $13.11 / Used from: $6.20
This is another "must have" book. It explains in detail the evolutionary basis for our sexual behavior including phenomenon such as infidelity, gender preferences, etc. It's absolutely, fascinating.
The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy Is As Necessary As Love and SexThe Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy Is As Necessary As Love and Sex by David M. Buss
Buy used from: $5.76
This book offers an evolutionary biology perspective on jealousy. It explains this complex emotion in deep detail and why it is not without value.
The Naked Woman: A Study of the Female BodyThe Naked Woman: A Study of the Female Body by Desmond Morris
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $5.00
This is a very good book by a famous zoologist on the female body, why it evolved the way it did and contains many other interesting biological facts about the female body and sexuality.
Intimate Behavior: A Zoologist's Classic Study of Human IntimacyIntimate Behavior: A Zoologist's Classic Study of Human Intimacy by Desmond Morris
Buy new: $10.20 / Used from: $4.31
A zoologist's perspective on intimate behavior. However, not an overly reductionistic one as Desmond Morris is very well-read in many areas.
Dark Eros: The Imagination of SadismDark Eros: The Imagination of Sadism by Thomas Moore
Buy new: $16.00 / Used from: $5.95
This is a book on Sadism by an extremely well-known and bestselling author. If you ever wanted to understand this type of sexual behavior, this book will help.
Dear LoverDear Lover by David Deida
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $7.99
This is a beautifully written book by David Deida about a women's deepest yearnings. It also gives an inside perspective on woman's sexuality from the point of view of the author who is well-respected in this area.
A General Theory of LoveA General Theory of Love by Thomas Lewis
Buy new: $10.17 / Used from: $6.42
While this book is not about sex per se, it explains human love and bonding. It also helps contextualize sexuality and some of the paradoxes involved.
Will Our Love Last?: A Couple's Road MapWill Our Love Last?: A Couple's Road Map by Sam R. Hamburg
Buy new: $16.10 / Used from: $2.89
A great and unique book on relationship compatability that includes a lot of information on sexual chemistry and exercises for couple's to look at this dimension of their relationship.
Skin: A Natural HistorySkin: A Natural History by Nina G. Jablonski
Buy new: $21.90 / Used from: $4.50
This is a great book on the natural history of skin. It involves the importance of touch and sex, but isn't completely sexually oriented.
Getting Our Bodies BackGetting Our Bodies Back by Christine Caldwell
Buy new: $13.57 / Used from: $2.99
A book about healing the mind/body split by a very reputable somatic psychologist and author.
Body: Recovering Our Sensual Wisdom Second EditionBody: Recovering Our Sensual Wisdom Second Edition by Don Johnson
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Another excellent book on reclaiming the body. This also does a great job of illuminating assumptions and cultural biases that are erroneous and perpetuate disconnection from the body.
Philosophy in the Flesh : The Embodied Mind and Its Challenge to Western ThoughtPhilosophy in the Flesh : The Embodied Mind and Its Challenge to Western Thought by George Lakoff
Buy new: $17.33 / Used from: $9.78
This is a scholarly book about how even cognition is tied to somatic or bodily experience and that the edifice of consciousness and thinking rests upon this foundation.
Men in LoveMen in Love by Nancy Friday
Buy used from: $9.30
A compendium of men's fantasies compiled by a therapist. This gives a nice cross section of the gamut of men's fantasies and most certainly fits the criteria for erotica.
My Secret Garden: Women's Sexual FantasiesMy Secret Garden: Women's Sexual Fantasies by Nancy Friday
Buy used from: $3.78
Women's descriptions of their sexual fantasies. This is a good book to give a sense of this and also good erotica.
Forbidden FlowersForbidden Flowers by Nancy Friday
Buy used from: $7.91
More erotica on forbidden topics. This is high quality material that was ground breaking at the time in terms of women coming forward about their sexuality.
Women on TopWomen on Top by Nancy Friday
Buy new: $7.99 / Used from: $0.01
Sexual fantasies of women who like to be in charge. Another ground breaking and highly erotic book of fantasies.
Anal Pleasure & Health: A Guide for Men and WomenAnal Pleasure & Health: A Guide for Men and Women by Jack Morin
Buy new: $14.04 / Used from: $8.38
A reputable author writing about anal sex. This is a good guide for anyone who is curious and wants to protect their health.
The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female DominanceThe Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance by Lorelei
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $10.49
This is an entertaining and sexy book on female dominance. If you are shy, but curious, you will probably really like it.
The Evolution of Human SexualityThe Evolution of Human Sexuality by Donald Symons
Buy new: $35.95 / Used from: $3.04
Great study in human sexuality. Read my review for more details.
Fast Girls: Teenage Tribes and the Myth of the SlutFast Girls: Teenage Tribes and the Myth of the Slut by Emily White
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This is a sociological study of adolescent female sexuality from the inside. It is well done and a good read.
Bare: The Naked Truth About Stripping (Live Girls)Bare: The Naked Truth About Stripping (Live Girls) by Elisabeth Eaves
Buy new: $11.66 / Used from: $0.47
An inside look at the world of erotic dancing. It is not all pretty as one would expect.
Tantric SexTantric Sex by Cassandra Lorius
Buy new: $13.08 / Used from: $3.74
While I don't think Western Tantra truly is representative as Tantra as a whole, this book is one of the better ones in this genre.
The Soul of Sex: Cultivating Life as an Act of LoveThe Soul of Sex: Cultivating Life as an Act of Love by Thomas Moore
Buy new: $11.90 / Used from: $0.39
Good book on the spiritual function of sex. It is eloquent and examines the complexity of the human condition.
Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of FleshFinding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh by David Deida
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $8.35
An interesting and educated perspective by a sensitve and thought provoking author. I think the sub-title says it all.
Sex Smart: How Your Childhood Shaped Your Sexual Life and What to Do About ItSex Smart: How Your Childhood Shaped Your Sexual Life and What to Do About It by Aline P. Zoldbrod Ph.D.
Buy used from: $40.94
Good food for thought for most of us adults. Fits well with the content of The Erotic Mind above.
Childhood Sexuality: Normal Sexual Behavior and DevelopmentChildhood Sexuality: Normal Sexual Behavior and Development
Buy new: $60.00 / Used from: $69.92
A book about normal childhood curiosity, sexuality and development.
Silent Lives: How High a Price?: For Personal Reflections and Group Discussions about Sexual OrientationSilent Lives: How High a Price?: For Personal Reflections and Group Discussions about Sexual Orientation by Sara L. Boesser
Buy new: $26.95 / Used from: $3.18
This is a popular book on sexual orientation with reflections and group discussions.
A Funny Thing Happened On My Way to Sexual OrientationA Funny Thing Happened On My Way to Sexual Orientation by Kage Alan
Buy used from: $37.50
A good and humorous book about coming out. Very insightful.
Now That You Know: A Parents' Guide to Understanding Their Gay and Lesbian Children, Updated EditionNow That You Know: A Parents' Guide to Understanding Their Gay and Lesbian Children, Updated Edition by Betty Fairchild
Buy new: $11.90 / Used from: $0.01
A book for individuals and families about coming out. This is geared toward dealing with anxities, fears and the challenges involved.
Homosexuality and CivilizationHomosexuality and Civilization by Louis Crompton
Buy new: $14.28 / Used from: $9.03
A famous, popular and well-respected reference on homosexuality throughout history.
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual PossibilitiesThe Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton
Buy new: $13.22 / Used from: $9.40
A humorous, but poignant look at sexual ethics in a modern context. See my review for more details.
Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits : Secrets of Sustainable Intimate RelationshipsPolyamory: The New Love Without Limits : Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships by Deborah M. Anapol
Buy new: $14.40 / Used from: $12.50
An well-respected pro-polyamory point of view. This is about having multiple partners within an honest framework and making it work.
Private Lies: Infidelity and Betrayal of IntimacyPrivate Lies: Infidelity and Betrayal of Intimacy by Frank Pittman
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $1.68
My hands down favorite book on infidelity and the complexities involved. I also think it is the best navigational beacon in terms of ethical behavior.
The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Third EditionThe Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Third Edition by Peggy Vaughan
Buy new: $10.92 / Used from: $7.54
A good resource for dealing with infidelity issues. It's short and high quality.
The Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and PeopleThe Myth of Monogamy: Fidelity and Infidelity in Animals and People by David P. Barash
Buy new: $10.88 / Used from: $4.98
A look at the biological basis for arguing that we are not a monogamous specifies from a biological perspective.
Sex and Spirit: An Illustrated Guide to Sacred SexualitySex and Spirit: An Illustrated Guide to Sacred Sexuality by Clifford Bishop
Buy used from: $3.35
An excellent illustrated look at cross cultural and historical views on the nature of sex and spirit.
Women, Sex, and Addiction: A Search for Love and PowerWomen, Sex, and Addiction: A Search for Love and Power by Charlotte Davis Kasl
Buy new: $10.20 / Used from: $0.85
Best book I know of for women on sexual addiction and co-dependence.
Contrary to Love: Helping the Sexual AddictContrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict by Patrick Carnes
Buy new: $10.17 / Used from: $2.98
Good book on general dyanamics of sexual addiction. This contains a lot of cognitive principles and covers a lot of ground.