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A Year of Absence: Six women's stories of courage, hope and love

A Year of Absence: Six women's stories of courage, hope and love
By Jessica Redmond

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A Year of Absence follows the lives of six women whose husbands, all members of the U.S. Army’s First Armored Division based in Germany, deploy to Iraq in April 2003. A young lieutenant’s wife comes dangerously close to alcoholism. Marriages are pushed to the breaking point by the constant strain of fifteen months apart. Each morning the women anxiously scan the headlines, wondering if they still have a husband, if their children still have a father. Some form friendships that become their lifeline. Others somehow find courage despite their isolation. Through tearful goodbyes, long-awaited communication from the front, and joyful yet troubled reunions, A Year of Absence captures what life is like for many families of deployed soldiers: the ever-present fear of death, the pressures of single-parenthood, and the strength and comfort that come with the support of close friends. Book excerpt Jena was strolling home from walking the dog when she noticed an official U.S. Army car carrying two soldiers in Class A uniforms heading toward her street. She felt her pulse quicken and, without meaning to, she started doing the math. If the soldiers stopped at her building, there was a one-in-twenty-four chance that Adam was dead. If they stopped at her stairwell, it was one-in-eight. Don’t come down here, she prayed silently. Please let it be somebody else.


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  • Amazon Sales Rank: #14338 in Books
  • Published on: 2005-11-01
  • Released on: 2005-11-01
  • Original language: English
  • Number of items: 1
  • Binding: Hardcover
  • 232 pages

Editorial Reviews

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...Heart-felt look at real-life experiences of military spouses. People from all walks of life should read this book... -- MilitaryWives.com Inc

An unflinching look at military wives...and reminds us again that there are heroes on the home front too. -- Tom Miller, Military.com

Explores what every soldier’s wife knows...how much long separations...test the strongest, most self-sufficient and resilient wives. -- Stars and Stripes, October 9, 2005

Gives voice to very intimate and private struggles of military wives. It's hard not to cry...Their stories...are heartbreaking. -- Yvonne Latty, author of We Were There

Perseverance, love, camaraderie...a story I cannot imagine being conveyed with more compassion or eloquence than in this incredible book. -- Andrew Carroll, author of Behind the Lines and editor of War Letters

Provides an important window for anyone who wants to understand those who are left at home. -- Dr. Margaret C. Harrell, RAND National Defense Research Institute

Skillfully parades a cast of six endearing characters...deft narration...always telling insights causes us to cheer for them all. -- Karen Spears Zacharias, author of Hero Mama

From the Inside Flap
"A powerful, absorbing account. Redmond skillfully captures the emotion and reality of our wartime homefront. These women’s fears, heartache, and endurance will resonate with anyone who has been separated from a loved one." – Karen Pavlicin, author of Surviving Deployment

From the Back Cover
"In A Year of Absence, Redmond skillfully parades out a cast of six endearing characters stationed at Baumholder, Germany, whose husbands deployed to Iraq in 2003.... Redmond’s deft narration and always telling insights cause us to cheer for them all, including Redmond, who casually reveals in the author’s notes that her own husband was deployed as she researched and wrote the book. As the daughter of a soldier-killed-in-action, I know the pain of war doesn’t stop when the bombing ends. No slumber is ever again as peaceful. No peace is ever again as restful. Death on the battlefield may be the ultimate sacrifice, but it isn’t the only costly one demanded of our nation’s military families. Redmond allows readers to see that life on the homefront is often an equally savage battle. – Karen Spears Zacharias, author of Hero Mama

"These are stories that need to be told. A Year of Absence finally gives voice to the very intimate and private struggles of military wives. Their great sacrifice for our country has far too often been overlooked. It’s hard not to cry as you read through these stories of wives fighting to keep sane as their husbands fight in the Iraq War. Their stories of battles with alcoholism and depression, marital strife, struggles to raise young children alone, and the constant worry that their husbands would be killed during their 15-month deployment are heartbreaking." – Yvonne Latty, author of We Were There: Voices of African American Veterans from World War II to the War in Iraq


Customer Reviews

A little disappointing2
As a military spouse and after reading so many great reviews here and elsewhere, I felt the need to read this book. It was a little fluffy for my liking. I did relate to events and day to day life of the women. However, I felt as though a lot was missing from this book. I was left wanting to know more about the characters. I think it could have been developed a little more.

i cryed for 6 hours5
all i can say is that by reading this book the last 3 deployments my husband has gone thru and the time i have spent by myself and the kids are finally validated.
im a army wife of 8 years, and 3rd deployment survivor.
i am german where my husband was stationed at for 10 years, and deployed to iraq twice from there.
i got the book and instantly started to read, and i couldnt stop, i sat on the couch for 6 hours crying and sobbing.
and realizing what i have been thru, some of the things i have pushed aside, as my husbandactually deployed from darmstadt in january, pushing into iraq right away, i pushed aside not sleeping for 2 years, while everytime at night i started to jump up when i heared car doors slam, checking the window as my heart almost stopped.
i am one of these women, and i feel after reading this book that i am somewhat relieved.
now that my husband is deployed for the 4th time in his career, i told him as soon as he gets home he will read that book to understand what i had to deal with.
i absoloutly love this book and will keep it for my kids to read, when they grow.
i am at peace in a sence.
thank you jessica redmon

Extraordinary Book5
Although I am the wife of a retired soldier who spent 24 years in the Army with two tours in Viet Nam, I still could identify with these women during their husbands' deployments to Iraq. I was especially pleased to read about Baumholder since that was where we were stationed in the 70's. This is a different war from ours, the Army has changed, women are much more independent than I was in the late 60's and early 70's when my husband went to war; however, the loneliness, worry about your spouse, counting down of days until he/she comes home, sometimes the anxieties and sheer terror that you feel...those things remain the same. This is one of my favorite books about this war and I think that it is ideal reading for any woman who watches her man leave for war. I was glad to read that the Army has Family Readiness Groups and support groups for the families. A glimpse into these women's lives was so revealing and I felt their pain. Just an excellent read, in my old Army wife opinion.