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Natural, Practical Baby Gear for the Attached Parent
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New Native Baby Carrier: Organic Unbleached Flannel Small (chest size 30-33")New Native Baby Carrier: Organic Unbleached Flannel Small (chest size 30-33")
I LOVE this sling. I have worn it every day since her birth. I am not exaggerating. It is comfortabe and soft (continues to get softer with wearing and washing) and I am able to nurse discreetly in it. It is also easy to slip into your purse/diaper bag and looks just fine when worn across your chest even without the baby inside. I cannot say enough....
SwaddleDesigns Organic Ultimate Receiving Blanket - Natural with Sage TrimSwaddleDesigns Organic Ultimate Receiving Blanket - Natural with Sage Trim
Buy new: $27.50
This is the best swaddling blanket! Don't even bother with receiving blankets (organic or otherwise), they are too small and virtually useless. Get several of these. I only had one, but wish I'd had 3.
Organic-Cotton Swaddle Blankets - Pink (set of two)Organic-Cotton Swaddle Blankets - Pink (set of two)
Soft, wonderful.
The Happiest Baby on the Block - The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Baby Sleep Longer (DVD)The Happiest Baby on the Block - The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Baby Sleep Longer (DVD)
Buy new: $17.99 / Used from: $9.41
Don't bother with the book. It is not very well written and you simply must see this in action to "get it." Especially when you are trying to do it after the baby is born and reading a book about it is not on your schedule. This DVD is great and the technique works! We didn't swaddle the way he teaches (just preference), but everything else was very effective.
Kissaluvs Fitted Cloth Diaper: Size 0 (5-16 lbs) - 3pack Girl ColorsKissaluvs Fitted Cloth Diaper: Size 0 (5-16 lbs) - 3pack Girl Colors
Buy new: $40.91
I LOVE these! I did a lot of research before deciding on these and they were/are well worth it, even though we also practice elimination communication. My husband wasn't excited about cloth diapering, but he loves these too and they are so easy that other cargivers could use them as well without having to "learn" cloth diapering, like they might with a Prefold.
Chinese Unbleached Prefold Diaper: Small (up to 15 lbs)Chinese Unbleached Prefold Diaper: Small (up to 15 lbs)
Buy new: $1.89
These are great backup diapers to our Kissaluvs, as well as good for laying down in the bed to go diaperless, and as burp/spitup cloths. And much less expensive than fancy burp cloths (which just seem silly to me).
Bummis Super Whisper Wrap Cloth Diaper Cover: Small (8.5-15 lbs).Bummis Super Whisper Wrap Cloth Diaper Cover: Small (8.5-15 lbs).
Buy new: $11.00
These work really well. I had several friends who stopped cloth diapering because of leakage issues. I've never had a leak. These work very well with Kissaluvs and with the Prefolds.
Rumble Tuff Changing PadRumble Tuff Changing Pad
Buy new: $24.98
Great changing pad. Comfortable, easy to clean, and you can mount it to the top of a dresser. While you can just change your baby's diaper on the bed, you will be changing enough diapers that you will want to save your back (and your bedspread). Don't bother with the cotton covers. Just throw down some prefolds and then you don't have to wash the cover every time you get a little pee on it.
Bummis Waterproof Bag (X-Large 40-54 Qt. Diaper Pail-25"X29")Bummis Waterproof Bag (X-Large 40-54 Qt. Diaper Pail-25"X29")
Buy new: $22.77
Just put this into an ordinary trash can with foot-pedal lid and you are set. I have washed it along with my diapers every time and it is in excellent shape. I am actually not sure if I have the Large or X-Large, but it is purple in color and works.
Bummis Waterproof Bag (Small for outings- 9"X12")Bummis Waterproof Bag (Small for outings- 9"X12")
Buy new: $7.49
This is what I used for outings with cloth diapers, and like the larger bag for at home, it works great.
Bac-Out Stain & Odor Eliminator 1 GallonBac-Out Stain & Odor Eliminator 1 Gallon
Buy new: $29.99
This works great on getting out stains on diapers. I often just sprayed down a poopy diaper and tossed into dry pail until diaper day. No stains! Also great for getting the food stains out of the carpet since you will be eating whenever and wherever you can!
The First Years Deluxe Fold & Go Diapering Kit (Horizontal)The First Years Deluxe Fold & Go Diapering Kit (Horizontal)
Buy new: $14.13
Great for the car. Just keep it in there at all times.
Diaper Free: The Gentle Wisdom of Natural Infant HygieneDiaper Free: The Gentle Wisdom of Natural Infant Hygiene by Ingrid Bauer
Buy used from: $6.99
This was the first book I read about elimination communication. It is gentle and forgiving and will give you insight into your baby's natual rhythms and ways to practice EC. We started late (3 months) but it has been amazing and fun. I highly recommend trying it.
BabyLegs Compote Leg WarmersBabyLegs Compote Leg Warmers
Really, really cute and practical. Keeps those legs warm without pants (making diaper changes easier as well as elimination communication easier). Get several pair after you know the sex of the baby (which was on her birthday for us!).
California Baby Super Sensitive Shampoo and Body Wash - 8.5 ozCalifornia Baby Super Sensitive Shampoo and Body Wash - 8.5 oz
Buy new: $11.50
We were given a variety of baby care products that all had ingredients and/or smells that I did not want to put on my newborn's skin. This was a wonderful find. Just barely scented (but I have a sensitive nose) and made from safe, gentle organic ingredients. It will take forever to go through this bottle.
Boppy Bare Naked Expandable Miracle Middle PillowBoppy Bare Naked Expandable Miracle Middle Pillow
Buy new: $21.33
I used this quite a bit the first 4-6 weeks and really appreciated the pillowed support. That being said, it has sat in my closet ever since. Supposedly you can use it with your baby for other things, but I haven't gotten any other use out of it. However, anything that makes breastfeeding easier in the beginning will increase your chance of continuing, so....
Medela Nursing StoolMedela Nursing Stool
Buy new: $23.40
This simple, small stool was amazingly effective at shifting weight away from my back both in late pregnancy and early breastfeeding. I continue to use it under my desk and it makes such a difference in my comfort. Worth it.
The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding: Seventh Revised Edition (La Leche League International Book)The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding: Seventh Revised Edition (La Leche League International Book) by La Leche League International
Buy new: $13.00 / Used from: $8.99
If you are breastfeeding, this is the Bible. Read it in advance, and reference it often those first few months.
The First Years  Deluxe Healthcare & Grooming KitThe First Years Deluxe Healthcare & Grooming Kit
Buy new: $39.95
We didn't get the deluxe version of this, but it was a nice set and had more than we've even used. It's economical and the nail clippers and thermometer are great.
Ore Originals Peek A Boo Comb and Brush SetOre Originals Peek A Boo Comb and Brush Set
Buy new: $15.00
I like these because they are wooden, natural--not plastic, synthetic. My peanut has very little hair, so I can't claim they are terribly useful (yet), but they are a nice alternative to the standard pink, plastic set you most often see.
Fisher-Price Papasan Cradle Swing -  Nature's Touch N1973Fisher-Price Papasan Cradle Swing - Nature's Touch N1973
Buy new: $349.99
This is a wait-and-see item. We got this after our daughter was born and discovered her need for constant motion outpaced our capacity to rock her hours on end. We had no extra hands to rock our baby when we were exhausted and this saved us. Plus, for a larger item amidst the sea of obscenely colored baby items, this one was a relatively attractive piece of baby furniture.
Proudbody Pregnancy Belly Cast KitProudbody Pregnancy Belly Cast Kit
Buy new: $29.22
This was a wonderful way to celebrate and remember my pregnancy. It was both easy and fun to do, although you will need another person to help you, especially if you decide to capture more than just your belly.
Ina May's Guide to ChildbirthIna May's Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin
Buy new: $12.24 / Used from: $7.99
This is an incredible book for those seeking a homebirth (or any birthing woman for that matter). I highly recommend it. You will simply love reading the stories, and all of the stats and studies are so affirming and enlightening.
Birthing from Within: An Extra-Ordinary Guide to Childbirth PreparationBirthing from Within: An Extra-Ordinary Guide to Childbirth Preparation by Pam England
Buy new: $13.57 / Used from: $7.49
Really wonderful pregnancy and birthing book. Most books either made me feel paranoid about all that could go wrong or seemed like they were all the complaints women have. This was a celebration and a reminder to trust your intuition.
Attachment Parenting: Instinctive Care for Your Baby and Young ChildAttachment Parenting: Instinctive Care for Your Baby and Young Child by Katie Allison Granju
Buy new: $19.62 / Used from: $1.96
Read this before you have your baby! Your ideas about AP and the reality of this committment may be wildly different. This is not to discourage anyone from AP but to better prepare you emotionally for this intimate and full-time committment to compassionate, instinctive parenting.
The Baby Book: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby from Birth to Age Two (Revised and Updated Edition)The Baby Book: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby from Birth to Age Two (Revised and Updated Edition) by William Sears
Buy new: $14.29 / Used from: $5.98
This is a great all-around parenting book for birth through 2 years. You will reference it often and for many random things. It is AP affirming.
Good Nights: The Happy Parents' Guide to the Family Bed (and a Peaceful Night's Sleep!)Good Nights: The Happy Parents' Guide to the Family Bed (and a Peaceful Night's Sleep!) by Maria Goodavage
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $2.52
This is a good book about the Family Bed and may help you feel more confident about this decision as well as support you along the path. We love the family bed!
DreamlandDreamland by Various Artists
Buy new: $13.99 / Used from: $7.99
Beautiful lullabies from around the world.
Planet SleepsPlanet Sleeps by Sherrilyne Blakey-Smith
Buy used from: $4.31
This music is exquisite, poignant, and will transport you to far off places. It is a very different lullabye music CD.
Vaccinations: A Thoughtful Parent's Guide: How to Make Safe,  Sensible Decisions about the Risks, Benefits, and AlternativesVaccinations: A Thoughtful Parent's Guide: How to Make Safe, Sensible Decisions about the Risks, Benefits, and Alternatives by Aviva Jill Romm
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $4.54
This will greatly aid you in making decisions about vaccinations, whether you do or don't. It is quite compelling and quite thorough. It also has wonderful resources on home treatments for everything from chicken pox to whooping cough, if you choose not to vaccinate or selectively vaccinate.
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of LifeNonviolent Communication: A Language of Life by Marshall B. Rosenberg
Buy new: $12.21 / Used from: $7.85
This is an excellent book in general and a wonderful book to re-read before the birth. It may save you when your sleep-deprived and self-doubting and finding it difficult to communicate with your partner while making the parenting transition. Just one of those books you want to have on your shelf.
Haba Scalari FishHaba Scalari Fish
Great, small wooden toy. She loves it. I recommend anything by HABA. You will welcome it amidst the sea of plastic toys you will be given by well-meaning friends/family.
Skwish Classic (Boxed)Skwish Classic (Boxed)
Buy new: $12.05
Another great toy. Interesting, engaging light-weight and not plastic!
Carlson Laboratories - Norwegian Cod Liver Oil Lemon, 16.8 fl oz liquidCarlson Laboratories - Norwegian Cod Liver Oil Lemon, 16.8 fl oz liquid
Buy new: $23.38
I love this cod liver oil and swear it is what finally got me pregnant. I took it during pregnancy and I have continued to take it while breastfeeding and believe it helped balance out my hormones following birth.