![]() | Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control: A Love-Based Approach to Helping Attachment-Challenged Children With Severe Behaviors by Heather T. Forbes
Buy new: $19.95 Hands-down the most important book we've read! When the "honeymoon" was over and traumas from our kids' past began to show, this book was a lifesaver, truly, and led to other important research and changes in our lives.
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![]() | A Taste of Haiti (Hippocrene Cookbook Library) by Mirta Yurnet-Thomas
Buy new: $18.21 / Used from: $14.97 Excellent cookbook! I've been told the recipes are quite authentic and we've made several recipes and they've been delicious! The diri kole recipe has been our kids' #1 favorite recipe ever and their ultimate comfort food (after 2 years here, it's still their favorite meal, rivaling even pizza! :)
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![]() | Inside Transracial Adoption by Gail Steinberg
Buy new: $16.47 / Used from: $15.18 From the 1st page I was struck with the information and kept putting it down every few pages to discuss with my husband. We learned why being color-blind can be harmful and so much more. A bit repetitive, but it helped us learn very important things. Absolutely crucial for transracial parents to read (and loan to grandparents, etc.)
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![]() | Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew by Sherrie Eldridge
Buy new: $10.20 / Used from: $5.50 A slow read...but lays a good foundation for adoptive parents. Speaking w/adult adoptees, one found these to be very true, another felt only some. Seems to depend on each person and their experiences.
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![]() | Mèsy by Marlene Dorcena
Buy used from: $19.54 One of our favorite CD's!! Soothing beautiful music sung in Haitian Creole. Often has clear repetitive lyrics that are easy for kids (and adults) to sing along to. Don't miss this gem!
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![]() | Creole Made Easy by Wally R. Turnbull
Buy new: $14.95 If your child speaks Creole, it's super helpful and easy (and fun!) to learn some Haitian Creole. This book was helpful among others, especially Kreyol for Parents by Bin Bineto (if you can find it on the web).
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![]() | Mountain Maid Best Made by Wolfe
Buy new: $14.95 / Used from: $16.95 I like this cookbook too and have enjoyed quite a few recipes from it. Many of the recipes are uncomplicated and unintimidating (although the directions are sometimes vague -- still like this cookbook though!) Always get compliments when I make the coconut bread.
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![]() | Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents by Deborah D. Gray
Buy new: $16.47 / Used from: $12.48 Attaching seems to be the #1 priority when bringing your kids home yet most overlooked by adoptive parents. This book has tons of great examples and advice. Really good book.
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![]() | Toddler Adoption: The Weaver's Craft by Mary Hopkins-Best
Buy new: $10.20 / Used from: $4.73 You guessed it! Good for adopting toddlers, and also up to age 5 or more, due to regression that can occur when they get home. Great specifics, down-to-earth, felt like it was coming from a friend.
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![]() | Real Parents Real Children by Holly Van Gulden
Buy new: $13.57 / Used from: $2.71 Just a must-read book for all adoptive parents. Very comprehensive.
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![]() | The Power of Two: Secrets of a Strong & Loving Marriage by Susan, Ph.D. Heitler
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $4.40 Being contently married over 12 yrs, we were surprised how much we both learned in this book! Great examples for better conflict resolution, and to generally show most respect for each other.
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![]() | Black Baby White Hands: A View from the Crib by Jaiya John
Buy used from: $6.14 Very eye-opening! Transracial parents should definitely read this. I didn't care for his writing style, but his messages in this memoir were very important. It confirms a lot of things in "Inside Transracial Adoption".
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![]() | The Rainy Season: Haiti Since Duvalier by Amy Wilentz
Buy new: $17.95 / Used from: $0.50 Another memoir written by a journalist who spent years in Haiti. Vivid accounts of political acts, the rioting in the streets, and general life in Haiti. Hard to put down & taught a lot.
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![]() | In Their Own Voices: Transracial Adoptees Tell Their Stories by Rita J. Simon
Buy new: $18.45 / Used from: $11.04 Like almost all transracial literature, very interesting and helpful to see what pain we can prevent causing our kids. This one made a big impact on us and helped bring great changes in our life. Please don't be afraid to pick it up -- you'll not only learn what mistakes to prevent but some of the stories were quite positive, so I encourage you to read it to help learn what to right too.
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![]() | Restavec: From Haitian Slave Child to Middle-Class American by Jean-Robert Cadet
Buy new: $12.89 / Used from: $6.15 An autobiography from someone who lived through the child slavery still in practice in Haiti. If you do not already know, some adopted kids were former restavecs, or very often members of their birth family are/were.
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![]() | Krik? Krak! by Edwidge Danticat
Buy new: $11.16 / Used from: $5.79 Probably anything by Haitian author Edwidge Danticat is a good choice. Interesting views into her life, beautiful writing.
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![]() | "Why Are All The Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?": A Psychologist Explains the Development of Racial Identity by Beverly Daniel Tatum
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $6.59 Powerful book with some unforgettable information.
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![]() | The Boy Who Was Raised As a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist's Notebook: What Traumatized Children Can Teach Us About Loss, Love and Healing by Bruce D. Perry
Buy used from: $13.95 Incredible book, not only fascinating to read but helped us make sense of the trauma our kids experienced and why their brains are now wired a certain way, and how to help them.
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![]() | Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason by Alfie Kohn
Buy new: $11.20 / Used from: $4.95 Great book! We've adapted parts of it to work best with our lives, but overall this fits very well with kids who've experienced trauma which includes all kids who've been adopted. Brought much peace and love to our home.
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![]() | Walking on Fire: Haitian Women's Stories of Survival and Resistance by Beverly Bell
Buy new: $17.95 / Used from: $5.18 Very touching and moving, helps lend understanding to what it's like to be a woman in Haiti.
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![]() | A Stubborn Hope by Jeanne DeTellis
Buy new: $12.99 / Used from: $0.01 A memoir written by a missionary. Interesting to read her perspective of living in rural Haiti.
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