Product Description

Women can only get all the things they really want when men know these truths, but women cannot speak these truths because that would violate all the rules. Society covers up these truths to maintain order, but it leaves women unfulfilled and men confused. Men are further frustrated by the seemingly contradictory logic of women. She wants a 'nice guy' yet she is addicted to a self-absorbed jerk. Has a woman ever cried on your shoulder because the bad boy that she is so in love with is inconsiderate, while you are a respectful 'good guy'? What is this power that bad boys have? They operate outside of social norms, and thus know the secrets. After many years in development, the book that needed to be written reveals the truths hidden behind social programming and explains the female mind with perfect clarity. A good guy, equipped with these truths, is far more powerful than any bad boy could ever comprehend. Like wearing X-ray vision glasses, the truth breaks the restraints of misconceptions and kicks butt into an enlightened future of personal empowerment. Discovered: What women want. Freud never could figure it out, but David Shade did. Explained: Why nice girls have the rape fantasy. The secrets make perfect sense of it. Exposed: Why women go outside of their marriage. There are four things that a woman must have, and she will risk her own marriage to get them. Revealed: How to bring out her primal carnal ruthlessly expressive natural sexual creature. Every woman has an inner animal waiting and wanting to be unleashed. David Shade is the renegade sex expert who had the courage to go outside the boundaries of conventional wisdom to find the things that really work, and work very powerfully. If you are a man who respects women and has the brass balls to handle the truth and a sense of responsibility enough to be entrusted with the power, you are the man who can make a woman wildly happy. Things will never look the same again. Women want you to know the truth, but for them to tell you the truth would violate all the rules. That's why it's called... Secrets. Women are glad to see someone else explain it. Women are happy to endorse this. Then they get exactly what they really want. Discover what those rules are, why they cannot violate those rules, why they want men to know the truth, and what it is that women truly want.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #48007 in Books
• Published on: 2009-09-16
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 270 pages

Review
I read your book 'Secrets of Female Sexuality' and I can't thank you enough for the valuable information. It just blew me away... finally someone understood me. I truly believe this book is the key to a successful loving partnership. If everyone out there would read this book, all the therapists would go out of business; no one would need them anymore. This should be a mandatory read for both Women and the Men we so dearly love and appreciate when they are being MEN and allowing us to be WOMEN! --Jean Rennes, Maryland

I started reading your book 'The Secrets Of Female Sexuality' and I had to continue until I finished it. You are right on the money!!! The 4 things a woman wants is so true. When someone asks what I am looking for, I tell them just that. The problem is, the majority of men think they are giving you that and they are soooooo far off. I am definitely going to recommend this book to my male friends as well as my female friends. The reasons you describe why a woman goes outside her marriage really hit home. They are all so true. I truly believe every guy who seriously wants to have a great relationship with a woman read this material. All 3 of your books are very well written, and should be recommended to anyone who is interested in a fulfilling relationship. Heck, all men should be 'required' to read this stuff. Sex therapists should be sharing your name with their clients. Had any of my partners had this information years ago, my life sure would have turned out differently!! This stuff is awesome! You did a wonderful job at putting this together and I will definitely spread the word!! Thanks!! Keep up the great work!! --Cindy Moore, Michigan

This book tells it like it is. It's frank, startlingly so at times, and can be just what the doctor ordered to break you free from the way your parents / your friends / society at large tells you how you should be doing things. For some people it'll require no small measure of courage, both to accept that what they're currently doing isn't good enough and to do what's necessary to build the amazing sex life they desire and deserve. I think it's worth it, and I think this book holds the key. --Rick & Lysa Atkins, Canada

About the Author
David Shade is 'America's Renegade Sex Expert' who had the courage to go outside the boundaries of conventional wisdom to find the things that really work and work very powerfully to give women incredible pleasure. As a result, he has improved the sex lives of tens of thousands of couples worldwide. David Shade is famous for his 'no fluff or B.S.' direct 'based on reality - not society' teachings on sexuality. He has been a featured speaker at sexuality and relationship conferences, has been on numerous radio shows including Playboy Satellite Radio, has been interviewed by many experts for their interview series, was featured in David DeAngelo programs, has written for Men's Health and OUI magazines, was sited in "The Game" by Neil Strauss, and is the Sex Advice columnist for the Detroit Examiner. When it comes to teaching men how to give women wild screaming orgasms, David Shade is a trained killer.

Customer Reviews

Disappointment!!
Reading this book was a boring endeavor and a big disappointment all the way to the last page. I have purchased the book based on the reviews in amazon. But after finishing the book I have my doubts about these reviews.

The author spends the first chapter attacking his critics. The following 30 pages are about what "women want". Which basically consist out of repeating the same: "Women want to be ravaged in the bedroom". The rest of the book consist of emails! Just emails! Hundreds of them. The emails are not discussed by the author. They are just there... All emails start with: "David, your are so great. I am glad I bought your products etc.."

The book does not fulfill what it promises. There are no techniques, no methods and the author is constantly promoting his products and his achievements in the bedroom, backed up with tons of boring emails which are all about how great David is.
Reading this book was a big disappointment and a waste of time and money. The author, David, proves that he has no respect for the readers and is only looking for personal approval and making money.

Better than expected
I originally bought this book based on an Amazon recommendation without really reading about it. I assumed it was a book on being a pickup artist, but its actually more about what to do AFTER you're already in a sexual relationship. I learned a few things, but more importantly it reinforced some of the same bedroom techniques I've been using for years. For guys who want to take sex to the next level, this is a good book. I deduct a star because the author talks about the author a lot. A lot. But the concepts and techniques are still in there and worth a read.

A VERY Happy Marriage
Wow...I could have used this years ago, but I'm thrilled to have it now.

I'm happily married to a beautiful woman who is several years my junior. During our marriage we've run the full gamut of ups and downs both in the bedroom and the living room. Things were pretty rough for a while there when we had fallen into more of a 'roommate' relationship and had lost the fire that originally existed for us. She had started out as a very adventurous lover and unfortunately, that faded as time went by and we (I) got a little too comfortable.

Things were beginning to turn around over the past several years as I began to research what it would take to bring back that vixen I had married over a decade ago. She gradually began responding to some of the things I was doing and then she had lunch with a girlfriend who put her on to David's material. I received an email at work with a subject line that simply said, "Oh baby!" The email contained a link to his website and that lead me to this book.

To say the least, David's insights were a revelation for me. We have so many acquired paradigms that cause us to act in ways that ultimately don't serve us. His book has helped me see female sexuality in a totally new light, which in turn has allowed me to approach our relationship in a way that allows my wife to be the sexual creature that she truly is. We tried the 'Welcome Method' and that was pretty good; and then I went for the 'Deep Spot' and it totally blew her mind! She now routinely has vaginal and multiple orgasms during intercourse, and is one very happy woman. It's funny how many doors that opens up...when a woman is satisfied, the man will often get more than he could or would have dreamed of in the first place!

All of this motivated me to continue to push the envelope of our sexuality together and take her to new heights. There are so many great things for us to do in there, I think it will take us a while to get through all of it...not a bad problem to have! More than anything else, and aside from all of the amazing techniques I've learned...I think the biggest thing is the realization of just how incredibly sexual women are, and the shift in my approach in leading the way to bring that out in her. I really don't know how that would have happened without this work entering the picture.

Already, I feel as though we've come so far, yet have so much to look forward to together. Knowing that we've only just scratched the surface makes our future that much more exciting.

Most of the couples I've come across seem to have lost all passion for one another after only a few years together. I thank you for providing me with the tools to win ours back...you truly have made a huge difference in our lives.

With much appreciation and admiration,
A very happy husband