The "gold standard," this book was one of the first to look at why women use behaviors such as gossip, cliques, and betrayal to hurt each other. These authors have a wealth of experience to share.

As a business primer, this book will help women look at the ways we limit ourselves and others through behaviors that are often unconsciously destructive.

Tips on how to form true friendships and avoid the destructive relationally aggressive behaviors that can sever a connection forever.

Rivalry often is the spark that ignites relational aggression. Barash covers all the bases and offers helpful survival tips.

As a counterpart to her bestselling book for girls, Wiseman offers parents a guide to dealing with relational aggression in their grown up lives.

A book about autism and relational aggression? Read on--Simon Baron Cohen explains how male and female brains function differently and why, in some ways, we do the things we do.

The one book I've found that looks at relational aggression as a continuum from girlhood on

A convincing explanation of "why a woman isn't more like a man."

Okay, David Barash only got a one star review for this book but I found it fascinating and easy to read. If you're into the biology of behavior and how it impacts on gender, this is the read for you.

To understand how relationships are the core of a woman's growth and development, read this new work on feminist psychology