Product Description

Pickup Artists' Psychological Secrets to Turn on, Charm, and Seduce almost any Woman.

The Art of the Pickup involves analyzing your target, determine her values, beliefs and weaknesses, and role-playing her desires.
Sexual Persuasion occurs by stimulating her subconscious emotions and desires. You create value and scarcity for yourself, remove her barriers, build trust, and initiate the close. The best Pickup Artists are teasingly cocky, have a cutting sense of humor, and the poise to pull it off with class.

The dynamics of Sexual Persuasion share the same techniques perfected by all great salesmen. Any man with the right tools and attitude can transform himself and create an exhilarating lifestyle he controls with style and ease. Face the facts. Women in courting mode are phenomenal actresses; many devote their whole lives to role-playing, camouflaged appearances, and storytelling. They manipulate men by dangling potential sex to satisfy their ego, play games, or vacuum your wallet. Understanding how seduction works is a double-edged sword. You can either go through life playing the victim, or educate yourself using the techniques to your advantage.
The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide reveals how to:

• Predict, anticipate, & easily influence female behavior.
  
• Create instant attraction and lust in seconds.
  
• 20 Seduction speaking techniques that create Irresistible Sexual Charisma.
  
• Master Speed Dating, eliminate 80% of your dating time & money spent, with a superior closing ratio.
  
• Read women instantly; spot and avoid the Psychos, Game Players, and gold digging cons.
  
• Build instant rapport with Smooth-talking Sexual Persuasion.
  
• Know exactly what she wants to see and hear, and feel.
  

Considering marriage? With a failure rate of 50%, the best defense is a good offense. Remove her financial incentive to file with a pro-active asset protection plan well in advance. In straightforward, easy-to-understand terms learn the Advantages, Limitations, and costs: the complete how, what, and where to setup multiple Trusts, FLPs, and LLCs. Learn how to:

• Legally Protect your ASSets from the whims of divorce courts and frivolous lawsuits.
  
• Shield a large salary, limit alimony to one based on a nominal salary YOU choose.
  
• Structure your financial planning and shield your entire estate layers deep and out of sight.
  
• Remove the assets from your name. You Control everything, but own nothing.

Tired of the Chase and want to elevate your Game to the next level? Section three is a Jet-setting Bachelor's travel guide to the best Sex Vacations around the World: where gorgeous young girls compete for you. Spoil yourself rotten, and be a Professional Bachelor.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #19987 in Books
• Published on: 2007-01-01
• Released on: 2007-01-01
• Original language: English
• Binding: Paperback
• 304 pages

From the Publisher
With razorsharp wit in dissecting the Art of the Pickup and female psyche, Dr. Tate writes with precision of a scalpel, that cuts like a chainsaw. No stranger to controversy, his follow up to The Hedonist onces again shreds the feminized PC culture and reveals the fast track to being a great seducer is a Pure Alpha Male. This isn't a layman's guide full of cheezy lines, flashy clothes, and date ideas. It's an advanced pysch guide for high level players hunting the big game, and avoiding the wrong women. It analyzes the specific female personalities you'll encounter, examines what traits great pick up artists use, what works best from a woman's perspective, and combines the two. It reveals how to turn women on subconsciously before you even speak, and presents role-playing styles to seduce and charm her panties off with Irresistible Sexual Charisma.

It reads one moment with the wisdom of Anthony Robbins, and the next a Dennis Miller routine. Compelling, hilarious, and sure to aggravate women to no end with it's wisdom in keeping the upper hand by seeing through women. The advice and tips on legally shielding your assets prior to marriage may cause devious trophy wives to jump off cliffs. We all know men destroyed by women in divorce; follow Dr. Tate's wisdom here and it will never happen to you.

About the Author
A Sexologist by trade, Dr. Tate (in his words) "accidentally got rich" during the Dot Com boom, and has spent the last decade globetrotting around the world Diving, Golfing, Fishing, and enjoying his favorite sport .. seducing women. His first book, The Hedonist, details his favorite two dozen cities abroad to pursue the Jetsetting Bachelor's lifestyle.

In The Professional Bachelor, he rips out his unique perspective of working the American dating scene, as a former nightclub prowling Psych Doc turned swashbuckling Expat. Having bedded an "embarrassingly large number of women" over the last 25 years, he shares his PUA advice; creating and projecting the Successful Alpha Gladiator image; a hilarious, insightful analysis of the psychological hoops men must leap through to find the right woman and push the right buttons to seduce her, while avoiding Dating Catatrophes. For those looking for a change, he offers up a glimpse of the night and day difference in women beyond Western Culture, and the ease of passionate romance without any drama just a flight away.

Customer Reviews

Funny, intellectual satire - exceptional PUA advice
An extensive formula for speed seduction and relationship dynamics. Covers social marketing, persuasion and influence, creating value/scarcity, building emotional connections, personality behavioral analysis, targeted role-playing, projecting charisma/presence, body language, timing, and much more.

For those who've take self-improvement/business marketing, this will be a nice refresher course with some added insights. In summation, you'll learn how to create a more attractive you, how to crack barriers and build a warm rapport, how to observe and predict behavior, and subconsciously connect more in conversation.
I`d actually classify this book as far more than the typical nightclub pickup guide. It goes way beyond that, more into the post hookup and relationship level. It's an introspective psychology tool for identifying the right personality match, maintaining healthy interaction, as well as a guide for recognizing problem situations early and avoiding getting trapped. Whether single, engaged or married, anyone can benefit from the advice.

Tate clearly wrote this for the lifetime bachelor. If you are in the back of your mind considering marriage, section two covers setting up asset shelters. It covers all the different formulas available; concise, but somewhat complex asset protection tutorials. As a small business owner, I set mine up a few years back and am very familiar with the process and terminology. I had my attorney skim through the pages to see if I needed to add any additional provisions that Tate proposes, but came out fine. For real estate investors, of importance, pg. 232 references an important change - see the Albright 291 bankruptcy Rptr 538 ruling. LLC's need to be multi-member from now on.

Tate's main theme for this section is to highly encourage men to set up shelters even before engagement, as a self-defense shield against the potential of a girl marrying money with the intent to divorce in a few years. I must say the concept is brilliant. Divorce rate is 50%+, so the advice is invaluable. Best offense is a good defense.

The last 60 pages are a bachelor's guide to vacationing in Rio de Janeiro, Costa Rica, and Thailand. Heavy on details from logistics, tourism advice, sports options(extreme sports, golf, fishing, etc); the best beaches, hotels, as well as pointing you to all the night clubs and easy hookup chica hotspots that hotel concierge's are clueless about. I've been to Brazil and Costa Rica before, and can vouch the advice is spot on. If you haven't been to Rio, it's a must! A fascinating section to read, and definitely a point-and-click time savor for the best itinerary during limited vacation time. Turns out Costa Rica has all kinds of extreme rafting, rapelling, and zip lining that I missed out on; great sail fishing there by the way.

Overall, I'd say the Professional Bachelor is a highly recommended read. Only negative, at 300 pages the editor should have trimmed it down, and tightened up the text a bunch; 250 pages would have been just right.

This is written for guys who are already players, and written as an intellectual's satire. If your sense of humor is limited, if you're a newbie who hasn't dated dozens of women and witnessed their highly volatile nature, or if you haven't viewed advanced financial structuring, this book may go way over your head (as seen in some of the reviews). But as far as a bachelor's manual, it is a totally unique treatise and on it's own level...something you'll re-read often, and will stand the test of time.

For you PUA junkies, The Professional Bachelor is probably more useful in conjunction with a book on creating openings and initial contact with women...so consider picking up The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed .

Also, get Tate's hilarious new memoir about his insane lifestyle living overseas. The title says it all. He just nails it with this book. Sex-drenched adventures filled with erotic photography and biting observation humor, with a cast of animated, flamboyant characters who push each other to edge and beyond.

High Heels and Dirty Deals - Globetrotting Tales of Debauchery from a Binge-drinking Nymphomaniac

Excellent Psychological Strategies
Really like this one. Very deep pickup advice for self-improvement, creating sub-conscious attraction, controlled persuasion in pickups and handling relationships. The book has tons of attitude advice for establishing an emotional attraction right out of the gate. Extensive explanations on creating an instant rapport through use of alpha confidence, a sense of humor, and displaying a healthy indifference; ie, not showing neediness or early aggressive physical escalation, not obsessing over your date's comments or actions. Girls make a decision about you in the first few minutes and this stuff needs to go down smooth.

He shows how to create the necessary comfort zone in every interaction with conversation influence techniques that are a must to memorize. Similar to Robert Cialdini`s work; the goal is to stay low key and be playful, be a good listener, turn around questions and get her to speak, selling herself to you instead of vice versa...this is far more successful than being adversarial, overly opinionated or showing insecure gamesmanship. (Wish I knew this stuff in my early twenties!).

His detailed insight into all the different personalities and their quirks and desires is almost spooky it`s so accurate. He takes apart each style of personality, and shows how to recognize the ones with the healthy traits of that personality style, and how to recognize the unhealthy ones to avoid...then explains seduction tailored for each type, and they vary a great deal. Good stuff to know, and all of it is written like standup comedy, which makes it big fun to read. Like most guys, I've dated half of them and can't believe how many things I missed that are now obvious.

Tate has obviously seen and done it all so many times, knows psychology like the back of his hand, and never gets manipulated for one second. The advice has tons of tips all over that help you to stay one step ahead and keep your attractiveness levels high. More importantly, it keeps you from wasting time and money like so many guys do, pursuing the wrong type with a clashing personality and different desires. It arms you with the right questions and things to observe to see if the woman you want is a good match.

The asset protection advice is something I definitely need to look in to. I must have ten close friends who were dragged through an expensive divorce; all of them could have changed the outcome of their life if they had utilized the shelters in this book before they were engaged. The writing is ironic, intuitive and cynical, but always entertaining.

Interesting Guidebook to Bachelorhood Mastery
I wouldn't include this in the group of PUA how-to guides like Mystery Method or Layguide because it cover a lot more ground than those two books. The Professional Bachelor Dating Guide's scope covers far more than just how to meet women. In the author's view, that's the somewhat easy part. It's the how to deal with women after you've bedded them that makes this book so much different than the rest.

So what else does it cover? How to protect you assets, how to deal with crazy women, where to go on vacation to meet and bang women. I can totally see some people not liking the way the writer views women and even I winced a few times, but I got over it. There are some real nuggets of wisdom that may not make an immediate impact to your life as a Player, but will help you overall keep your life from spinning out of control because of women.

It could be better written and maybe there will be a second edition some day that cleans things up, but it's truly a unique book with a different perspective that's love it or hate it. I bought one of the author's other books called The Hedonist which is much more focused on the subject of bedding women around the world. I recommend that book as well if you plan on doing any international travel.

Overall, I recommend this book to any single guy or divorced guy who wants to better understand female psychology and how you can work it to your advantage.