Product Description

Almost everyone has found themselves in a situation where they don't know if they should bite their tongue or speak their mind. When is silence golden and when is it better to speak up? When to Speak Up and When to Shut Up offers practical guidelines for people who want to improve their communication skills. It will help readers explore the cost and purpose of silence, how to ask good questions, how to overcome pressure to remain silent, and more. Using biblical and contemporary examples, this book shares important strategies for discerning God's direction, acting on his word, and building better communication within your workplace, church, and home.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #191595 in Books
• Published on: 2006-08-01
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Mass Market Paperback
• 160 pages

Features

• ISBN13: 9780800787424
• Condition: NEW
• Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.
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From the Back Cover
When is silence golden? When is it more important to speak from your heart? Your friend is about to make a disastrous decision. You see problems in your son or daughter's marriage. At work you see a better approach than the one your supervisor suggests. Should you speak up? Or should you keep the peace by staying quiet? When to Speak Up and When to Shut Up offers practical guidelines for conversations you won't regret. It will help you explore -the cost and purpose of silence -why to check motives when talking to friends, family and authorities -how to ask good questions -ways to deal with anger and resentment -how to overcome pressure to remain silent Using biblical and contemporary examples, this book shares important strategies for building better communication within your workplace, church and home. "If you've ever wondered when you should bite your tongue and when you should speak your mind, this book is for you. I have personally benefited from Dr. Sedler's advice and know that you will, too. Read this wise book and skillfully navigate your important conversations."--Dr. Les Parrott III

About the Author
Updated Bio - April 2006 Michael Sedler (D.Min., Christian Life School of Theology) ministers in churches and provides consultation services to schools and businesses throughout the United States. Michael is the author of Stop the Runaway Conversation and When to Speak Up When to Shut Up and works as an adjunct professor for three universities. He and his wife, Joyce, live in Spokane, Washington.

Customer Reviews

Timely Advice
This book has an appropriate amount of scripture to back up the logic within the pages. I and several of my co-workers used it when we had a call meeting with our boss. It really does give practical advice about when to speak up and when to hold your piece. I would suggest it for anyone who attends meeetings, supervises others, and who counsels or serves as a mentor to others. In addition, parents may see great benefits from using it.

A great tool
What a great tool! This book surprised me. I did not find it in my local Christian bookstore, or at the many local bookstores, I frequent. I found it at the Phoenix Airport during an unexpected 3-hour layover. The title spoke to me as you can imagine during my irritated state. Just as I was ready to release one of the biggest sighs I could muster after hearing about another 1-hour delay, the cover of the book caught my eye--"When to Speak Up and WHEN TO SHUT UP". God sure has a great sense of humor. This book was exactly what I needed not just for that moment, but in everyday life.

It speaks to everyday opportunities to look at the "why" behind our communications and to test ourselves--honestly--about why we are communicating and the effects of our communications--on others and ourselves. It also looks at when we need to speak up either as a defense for or protection of others. I felt somewhat convicted as I poured through the book.

It utilizes scriptures and biblical stories to illustrate and drive home the learning. I just loved it! I was unfamiliar with the author and checked Amazon for other titles. I will be purchasing more of his books on this subject.

If you are searching for a book that hits on and pushes you beyond your comfort zone in both these areas, well here it is. At the end of the book, you will realize that sometimes, "Silence is not golden".

Enjoy!


Another recommendation in this area for Christians: 30 Days to Taming Your Tongue: What You Say (and Don't Say) Will Improve Your Relationships

A Most Pleasant Surprise!
My decision to purchase my first copy of the book was "on a whim"! Imagine my surprise when I dove into the book and quickly realized it was not based on "humor", but on "real meat"! I soon ordered 30 more and will soon need a resupply as I have determined that many people need to read the "message". Even my Methodist pastor decided he should read the book. So glad I picked it up on the spur of the moment while I waited for my prescription to be filled.