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After twenty years of burrowing into the corner of the family couch, eating junk food, and reading science fiction, Indiana mother Delonda Jarvis did something that shocked her family: she went to college. Or, as her younger daughter, Haven Kimmel, writes, she "stood up, brushed away the pork rind crumbs, and escaped by the skin of her teeth."

Despite having no money, no car, and a resentful husband, Delonda managed to obtain a master's degree in English. The former teenage bride also dropped one hundred pounds, learned how to drive, and became a breadwinner. But as she reclaimed herself, her marriage disintegrated.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #99913 in Books
• Published on: 2007-02-13
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 336 pages

Amazon.com Review
Haven Kimmel's memoir She Got Up Off the Couch might have been called The Further Adventures of Zippy, since it picks up where her bestselling A Girl Named Zippy left off, and is reeled out in much the same vein. The person who got up off the couch is Zippy's mother, Delonda, who for years sat on the titular sofa, ate, read, and watched TV until she weighed 268 pounds and life was nearly unbearable. You would never know the bad parts from Haven Kimmel, who always concentrates on the bright side, even though she lived in a house without heat, food, indoor plumbing, a dependable water supply or even a modicum of cleanliness. Kimmel loves her parents inordinately, even at their most unlovable.

Delonda takes a College Entrance exam, passes it and enrolls at Ball State, where she completes a degree in two years, goes on for a Master's and gets a job as a high school teacher. That sounds fairly straightforward but it wasn't easy. Bob Jarvis, Delonda's husband and Zippy's father, gave her no help at all; in fact, he ridiculed her and ignored her progress. Eventually, he found someone else while Delonda was busy reclaiming her life. We could read this as a tale of the times, where a woman takes charge of herself, loses 120 pounds and, against all odds, gains an education and a livelihood. It is all of that, and more.

Life in Mooreland, Indiana, in the 1970s is not very exciting, but Zippy finds wonder everywhere and often laughed until she "tipped right over." There is an unquenchable spirit in the girl, and then in the woman, that keeps popping up despite a very sketchy upbringing. The neighbors fed and bathed her, she wore the same pair of pants to school every day for an entire school year--without benefit of laundry. Her brother and sister lit out at the first chance they had--though Melinda ends up only a few blocks away and becomes another safe port for Zippy. She is a victim of benign neglect, not malice or meanness.

Her tales of church camp, days with her friends, driving with her Dad, going to a play with her Mother, her love for her niece and nephew and her discovery that her Dad is having an affair are all told in typical Zippy-style: they are humorous, poignant, exuberant, and often breathless. Stay tuned: this book ends when Zippy is only thirteen. Hopefully there's more to come. --Valerie Ryan

From Publishers Weekly
This sequel to A Girl Named Zippy charts the continuing escapades of adolescent Zippy in tiny Mooreland, Ind., putting special emphasis on the liberation, via a college education, of her mother, Delonda Jarvis. With stories ranging from Zippy's run-in with a territorial cow on a friend's farm to "A Short List of Records My Father Threatened to Break Over My Head If I Played Them One More Time," Kimmel's Twainish tone deepens into a more modern type of despair as the problems of her parents' marriage become pronounced. By learning to drive, getting a bachelor's degree and becoming a teacher to support her family, Delonda expands her potential, mirroring the growing possibilities for women in the post-'60s era. Meanwhile, Zippy's father begrudges Delonda these few freedoms, while still failing to provide adequately for his family and flirting with adultery. Kimmel has a distinct voice and introduces quirky characters, but even better, she goes beyond memoir to explore the anxiety inherent in the shifting of traditional family and gender roles common to her generation. She draws readers in with her easygoing manner and ability to entertain, but surprises with a bittersweet paean to childhood naïveté and an arresting account of a family's disintegration. (Jan.)
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From Booklist
*Starred Review* Zippy Jarvis is, in many ways, a typical kid growing up in 1960s rural Indiana: riding bikes with her friends, spending the obligatory summer at camp, and enduring the teasing of her older, beautiful sister, Melinda. In this wry, wistful sequel to best-seller A Girl Named Zippy (2001), the candid preteen shares the spotlight with her mother, Delonda, a longtime sofa dweller, who decides, once and for all, "to get up off the couch" and go to college (she learns to drive and loses more than 100 pounds, too). Kimmel writes convincingly from a child's perspective, with engaging accounts of characters encountered by the Jarvis clan. Among them: blonde, pink-polyester-clad Bonnie, who spews streams of swearwords between cigarette puffs; enigmatic English literature professor Dr. Mood, an expert on "Raining Maria Rilkuh," who sports sandals with electric-blue socks; and matronly, mole-covered neighbor Olive, whom Zippy unwittingly witnesses in a state of undress ("I had just added something to the photo album of 'Things I Wished I'd Never Seen'"). Zippy's father is the most reprehensible of the bunch--a racist adulterer who resents his wife's success. Kimmel deftly blends mordant humor and malaise in this tale of personal triumph in a tiny midwestern town. Allison Block
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Customer Reviews

Blew Me Away!
Haven Kimmel's latest memoir installment is even better than the first ("A Girl Named Zippy") if that's possible to imagine. "She Got Up Off the Couch" is deeper, more interesting and funnier! Watch how she gradually reveals some of the truths of her young life. This deft unveiling technique works perfectly to paint a more sympathetic picture of her family than if she had merely started out stating some of the "facts" about her early life. Thanks to her perfect pacing, we as readers grow in affection for her mother, father and sister before we know some things that otherwise may have made us judge them harshly. Clearly Zippy does not want us to judge them harshly and her superb talent gives us, and her family, this wonderful gift.

No higher praise can I give than to also note that young Zippy has echoes of Scout Finch throughout the narrative. I hated to reach the last page.

If you haven't read "The Solace of Leaving Early", Haven Kimmel's first novel, you will want to do so now. It's has one of the most deliciously irritating protagonists I have ever had the pleasure to meet between the pages of a novel. In fact, I'm going to go re-read it (again) because just writing this makes me recall it's splendor!

Zippy II...Even better than Zippy...
Three years ago I accidentally read "A Girl Named Zippy." It's not a book I would have thought to read, you know; the memoirs of a woman's young childhood. My daughter had received the book as a Christmas gift. With nothing better to do one day while sitting in the car as my daughter and her friend were sledding, I picked it up off the car seat and read. After we got home, I couldn't stop reading it, anxious to see what happened next, and read it straight through `til finishing in the wee hours of the morning. Only the aching for another chapter... or two... or another book marred its excellence, `cause Zippy ends with her about 9 or 10 years old. I was excited to hear the continuation was released; I got a couple copies for gifts overnight, and read from the noon UPS delivery until 4 am. There's still plenty of the endearing wacky kid in this book ("I had taken to sucking on gravel, which didn't go over well with my sister... Sometimes I washed it off with the hose, and sometimes I just rubbed it on my shirt. I'd get it in there, move it around. Pea gravel makes a lot of noise in a mouth. It tasted exactly like rock."). But along with stories of her brother, her sister, her friends, and especially her less than stellar dad, half the book is about the improbable Phoenix-like rise of her downtrodden mother who gets her life back on the track delayed two decades by a husband content to let his family live in poverty. Her fascination with her mother's journey and transformation leads her to take every opportunity she can to vicariously share it. I grew up, in nearly the same period, in two of the surrounding towns that played big parts in this story, so there's a nostalgic angle for my enjoyment, but I can't imagine anyone not loving this book, especially if they read Zippy first.

I LOVED this book!!!
I honestly didn't think that A Girl Named Zippy could be topped, but Haven Kimmel has done it again. The woman is amazingly talented! While the first book was innocent and exuberant, this one was more thought provoking and poignant as Zippy grows into an adolescent young woman with so many thoughts and feelings swirling within. Don't get me wrong, there is some incredibly funny stuff in this book. There were times when I threw my head back and laughed so hard I could hardly breathe, but it kept me thinking, also. For me, the best chapter was titled "Gold" when she pays homage to her friends. Oh, my goodness! Tears came to my eyes. She absolutely captured the essence of what true friendship is all about and the fact that they all accepted her for who she was despite her family's situation.

I truly hope that this is only book two of a trilogy. I'm anxious to know what happens to Zippy as she evolves into Haven. I want to know how Delonda copes with her husband leaving the family. I want to know if Melinda ever stops torturing Zippy. I want to know more about Dan and how he reconciles his feelings about his father and his childhood. And I even want to know what eventually happens to Bob Jarvis though a side of him is revealed in this book that isn't as endearing as in the first book. I want to know, dang it!