Frugal Luxuries: Simple Pleasures to Enhance Your Life and Comfort Your Soul
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Tracey McBride created the newsletter Frugal Times in 1993 and has since delighted thousands by elevating the skill of living frugally to an art form. Now Tracey's commonsense techniques for making "every day a feast" and her wisdom on how to cultivate abundance are gathered in one volume.
Tracey shows us how to savor the intangible gifts we receive when we create a nurturing home, share luscious yet low-cost meals with family and friends, master our budgets, learn to combine style and thriftiness, and cultivate our dreams and imaginations without spending a cent.
Filled with ingenious, heartwarming, and practical advice, Frugal Luxuries helps us remember what is truly of value in our lives--our time, our loved ones, and our inner sense of prosperity. Combining the spiritual nourishment of Simple Abundance with the practicality of The Tightwad Gazette, Frugal Luxuries is destined to become the classic on how to live every day with a sense of abundance, beauty, and luxury.
Product Details
- Amazon Sales Rank: #461239 in Books
- Published on: 1997-07-01
- Released on: 1997-07-01
- Original language: English
- Number of items: 1
- Binding: Paperback
- 288 pages
Editorial Reviews
From the Publisher
"There is an incredible amount of wisdom between the covers of this book on how to live a totally fulfilling life no matter how much money you have."--Jack Canfield, co-author, Chicken Soup for the Soul
"Think of Tracey McBride as the Martha Stewart of the cheapskate set."--Chicago Tribune
From the Inside Flap
Tracey McBride created the newsletter Frugal Times in 1993 and has since delighted thousands by elevating the skill of living frugally to an art form. Now Tracey's commonsense techniques for making "every day a feast" and her wisdom on how to cultivate abundance are gathered in one volume.
Tracey shows us how to savor the intangible gifts we receive when we create a nurturing home, share luscious yet low-cost meals with family and friends, master our budgets, learn to combine style and thriftiness, and cultivate our dreams and imaginations without spending a cent.
Filled with ingenious, heartwarming, and practical advice, Frugal Luxuries helps us remember what is truly of value in our lives--our time, our loved ones, and our inner sense of prosperity. Combining the spiritual nourishment of Simple Abundance with the practicality of The Tightwad Gazette, Frugal Luxuries is destined to become the classic on how to live every day with a sense of abundance, beauty, and luxury.
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The Luxury of Frugality
"Every state of society is as luxurious as it can be."
--Samuel Johnson
Many people confuse luxury with opulence. To understand luxury you must look at the true sense of the word. The American Heritage Dictionary defines luxury as "something...conducive to pleasure and comfort," so--to indulge in luxury, you need only to focus on what brings you pleasure and comfort. Does luxury have to mean diamonds and servants? Or can it be a plump down comforter on a cold night or a bowl of wild blueberries picked at the peak of that fruit's brief season? Practicing frugality allows you to organize your life and thinking in such a way as to control your own happiness. One way this is done is by allowing yourself to delight in ordinary things and occurrences.
As Thoreau so eloquently stated, "I know of no more encouraging fact than the unquestionable ability of man to elevate his life by a conscious endeavor."
Make a conscious decision, at this moment, to appreciate what your own life has to offer in the way of frugal luxuries.
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Frugal luxuries to savor:
Being healthy
Love for my family, their love for me
The opportunities found in a new day
A humorous story
Smelling the herbs growing in the garden
Our wonderful neighbors
The laughter of a baby
The ability to read and write
The simplest pleasures evoke the warmest feelings of satisfaction. In my mind the word luxury evokes memories of eating fresh-picked corn on a muggy August evening--or the ability to travel to another place or time by losing myself in a hard-to-put-down book.
While there are many individual definitions of luxury, I'll never be convinced that these simplest pleasures do not truly define the word.
It has been my observation that too many people forget to enjoy these simple pleasures on a regular basis. They seem to wait for the Shangri-la of someday rather than adjust their attitudes and sample the small indulgences found in ordinary events. When that longed-for "someday" arrives, it is often too late.
There are so many outstanding experiences that are lost because people do not take the time to recognize and savor them. By ignoring the opportunities to experience these riches, you may be missing out on the finest moments of life. Life is composed of the details of every day, and it is in these details that we find our pleasures.
Lest you confuse this philosophy with hedonism, be assured that Frugal Luxuries does not advocate throwing common sense aside. Instead, it takes a page from the subtle Epicurus, the ancient Greek philosopher who prescribed a code of social conduct that promoted honesty, prudence, and practice to make a happy life. In essence, we are urging you to take the familiar and give it a twist in a gracious, friendly, and philosophical manner. We invite you to enjoy and elevate the quality of your life without stressing your finances. The strategies we offer in Frugal Luxuries will enable you to do so while remaining faithful to your budget, whatever its size.
Family Secrets
"[Knowledge] is a rich storehouse ... the relief of man's estate."
--Francis Bacon
Until several years ago, the art of frugality had been learned through an underground information network. The knowledge of how to live well using less money had been passed discreetly from one generation to the next. Many people had no one from whom to learn this valuable information, so they struggled to make ends meet, while asking themselves the question, "Isn't there a better way?"
Today the subject of frugality is no longer taboo. There are now a variety of sources from which you can collect frugal lore. John Quincy Adams pointed out (in his report on the establishment of the Smithsonian Institution in 1846) that "to furnish the means of acquiring knowledge is ... the greatest benefit that can be conferred upon mankind. It prolongs life itself and enlarges the sphere of existence." How exciting it is to discover that practicing the art of frugality, and making a written record of it for future generations, is recognized as a valuable endeavor.
Cultivate the Intangible
"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."--Antoine de Saint-Exupery, The Little Prince
In the quest for a gracious lifestyle on a limited income, I have decided not to confine myself to material things. Making a conscious effort to court the intangibles, taking liberal doses of compassion, empathy, and faith, can enrich your life more than you might imagine. Focusing on the positive may be the most effective (and least costly) thing you can do to elevate your quality of life.
What precisely are intangibles? Intangibles are those things that cannot be perceived by the five senses. Wisdom, love, education, health, and joy are just a few. Intangibles are among the finest things to cultivate and possess in this life. They can relieve the pressure of your daily responsibilities, enrich your pocketbook as well as your soul, and elevate the quality (and appreciation) of your life. So on those braided days when the tasks of living seem overwhelming, you might want to make a deliberate effort to cultivate the intangibles.
Intangibles are not for sale. Even the very rich cannot buy a vessel of virtuosity or a hamper filled with happiness, and those of us who choose to cultivate these intangibles will have treasures that will not rust.
A Celebration of Distinction
"We are lovers of beauty without extravagance."--Thucydides
Celebrate the differences between frugality and miserliness. Many people neglect to appreciate the gentle kindnesses and tender mercies that touch their lives on a daily basis. You may be unable to buy expensive gadgets, priceless antiques, or a mansionlike home for your family, but you can be grateful for what you do have. Discover the frugal luxuries hidden within your daily life.
Make the most of any situation in which you find yourself. Begin by designing an attitude, home, and lifestyle that appeal to your emotions and sense of well-being. Face the tasks of living with joy. Embellish ordinary days with intelligence, comfort, beauty, and a renewed faith in the fact that the finest things are those that cannot be obtained with money. Choose now to become quietly privileged. Feed your mind, your senses, and your soul through learning and practicing the art of frugality.
Lingering Wisdom
"There is no happiness where there is no wisdom."--Sophocles
Benjamin Franklin, inventor, diplomat, and one of America's most famous Founding Fathers, had a reputation for being frugal. This, it is rumored, evolved from his impoverished childhood. Yet he also had a reputation for living a comfortable, almost lavish lifestyle.
Louisa May Alcott (my favorite author) told stories of families whose lives were marked by humble and practical wisdom. In what is probably her most famous work, Little Women, the character Jo March speaks of her younger sister Amy's artful (and frugal) ways. "It's a great comfort to have an artistic sister.... There's nothing the child can't do. Why, she wanted a pair of blue boots for Sallie's party, so she just painted her soiled white ones the loveliest shade of sky blue you ever saw, and they looked exactly like satin."
Even more humble are the stories written by Laura Ingalls Wilder. In the first volume of her Little House series, Little House in the Big Woods, she describes how her mother enhanced a sometimes dreary pioneer life. "Ma liked everything on her table to be pretty, so in the wintertime she colored butter. After she had put the cream in the tall crockery churn and set it near the stove to warm, she washed and scraped a long orange-colored carrot. Then she grated it on the bottom of the old, leaky tin pan that Pa had punched full of nail-holes, and when she lifted up the pan, there was a soft, juicy mound of grated carrot. She put this in a little pan of milk on the stove and when the milk was hot she poured milk and carrot into a cloth bag. Then she squeezed the bright yellow milk into the churn, where it colored all the cream. Now the butter would be yellow."
On a more exotic note, Nikos Kazantzakis, author of the well-known book Zorba the Greek, let his characters discover the simple pleasures of life. Roasted chestnuts, a glass of wine, and a "simple, frugal heart" were his ingredients for happiness.
Customer Reviews
For those of us who are serious frugal Martha Stewart types
Of course the book is about her ideas and her life. Of course she has frugal Martha Stewart style ideas. Being involved in a voluntary simplicity community since the late 80's I have evolved from a Tightwad Gazette person to someone who wants class and frugality. Frugal to many people I encounter means cheap plain food or clothes and nothing fun or fancy. For me and many of my frugal minded friends it is about wanting quality as well as frugality. The Tightwad Gazette proved of little use to me since I like quality and classy clothes Martha Stewart style and not simply clothes that are simply cheap. Different strokes for different simple living folks.
Inspiring prose peppered with practical perspective
Ever since the simplify scene has become popular we have been presented with various outlooks on the "less is more" lifestyle, but few have approached the theme with such style and grace. In fact, Ms. McBride�s attempt of bridging the gap between the Amy Dacyczyn and Martha Stewart approaches proves to be quite successful, particularly if one seeks inspiration and a sort of uplifting of the soul along with their reused Ziploc bags.
On the other hand, we found the book overly focused on the author's personal experience especially since she has been the editor of a newsletter since 1993. We were surprised to not see more information culled from her readers over the years. This would have fleshed out the book and provided substance with which more readers could identify.
Despite the lack of a varied viewpoint and a slight absence of practical tips (though we appreciated the tip on how to create home-made soup cups), readers who seek more soul than Dacycsyn and have less cash than Stewart will appreciate an evening in the garage-sale purchased armchair with this book.
Refreshing approach, but where are the boys?
I bought this book because I am a patsy for anyhting with "frugal" in the title. Yes, the book does have some drawbacks: Martha on a budget, and lots of neat things to do with little girls. I have two little boys and the ideas presented don't translate well. Tea parties and doll's birthdays, bone china and salt cellars are lovely, but my reality is dinos, mudpies, gravel in the pockets, and Curious George. Overall, I enjoyed reading the book and have used several of the ideas with success. Frequently, frugality is seen as austere, and strictly cost conscious; however, "Frugal Luxuries" presents an interesting perspective that frugality doesn't have to be austere and a little beauty in one's daily experience can soften the economic reality. I do recommend this book as more philosphical than practical application.





