Product Description

Romy Miller is a woman. She understands women. Now she's going to help you do the same. Understanding Women: The Definitive Guide to Meeting, Dating and Dumping, if Necessary will turn you into a dating machine and help you go from loser to lover in no time flat. Taking an in-your-face approach, this book leaves no excuses for you to not only succeed with women but to understand them as well. If this book doesn't do the trick, nothing will.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #82801 in Books
• Published on: 2004-01-25
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 168 pages

Customer Reviews

Forget the Mystery Method and that other PUA stuff and get back to common sense!
About a year ago, I began reading various pick-up artist material, including Neil Strauss' The Game, The Mystery Method by Mystery, and From the Bar to the Bedroom by the editors of AskMen.com. The information in those books was quite useful, but I felt the material that pick-up artists use didn't fit my personality. I tried using that material on a few ladies, and it seemed so unnatural and uncomfortable to me. I successfully creeped out a few of them. I felt like an actor reading from a horrible script. Plus, don't get me started on "the seven hour rule." Sex happens when she wants it to happen. You can't force it on her.

Every guy is different. He must use the strengths in his personality to become successful with women. What I like about this book is that tells you what not to do, what to do, what is going through her mind, and what she expects you to do. All you need to have is a decent personality, and the information in the book will guide you the rest of the way.

The book is nothing more than common sense that guys tend to overlook. The chapters are short and to the point. I read the whole thing in about two hours. By the way, she is hilarious but right, sadly.

If you had a bad role model growing up or your dad taught you absolutely nothing about women, I strongly suggest this book and only this book. It's all you really need. Please, don't buy into the whole PUA thing. The next book you should buy should be on tantric sex.

A Woman's Point of View
Finally, A book on dating written by a woman.So far, reading whatRomy Miller has to say regarding what women expect from men is right on target. Some chapters are short, while others are longer. She has a in your face, tell it like it is, no B.S. approach. It's verymotavational. If you never try, how will you ever ever know if the woman you want to date will say yes or no kind of thing. It's not how good-looking you are or how rich you may be. What you really need is confidence. Some maysay a lot of it is "common sense", thatis not the case here. Many guys make the same mistakes over and over again.With this book, you will told what to do, what not to do, etc. I'm not quite finished reading the whole book, it's only 160+ pages. But so far, it's easy to understand and Romy's info is down to earth real. The only thing she doesn't get into is how to find the right woman. Great reading for men who need help understanding women.

For the Nice Guy Who Wants to do Better
There are a lot of books out there about how to get women into bed.

Most appear to be written by guys, everyone from great writers like Neil Strauss to complete players who can't spell very well looking to have as much wild, irresponsible and ultimately selfish sex as they can.

UNDERSTANDING WOMEN is the perfect book for a nice guy who's looking to improve his game (which, I suspect, is most of us out here). This book doesn't treat women like targets or belt notches because it was written by one, striking the right balance between getting your game and satisfying the romance for your prey. And, no matter how nice you are, you will need "game" out there. It's the law of the jungle, especially these days.

Romy Miller does an excellent job of giving insight into the female mentality and allows men to see what's going on from the other side.

If you're looking to become a player-borderline-sexual-predator, move on to something else (those books are out there), but if you're looking to improve your love life and find something more meaningful, then check this one out.