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Special Education:  Parents as Advocates
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Wrightslaw: Special Education LawWrightslaw: Special Education Law by Peter W. D. Wright
Buy used from: $2.19
MUST HAVE!  This book will help you understand what your child is entitled to in the public school system.  The author, Attorney Pete Wright, has been there himself...
Wrightslaw: IDEA 2004Wrightslaw: IDEA 2004 by Peter Wright; Pamela Darr Wright
Buy used from: $3.16
The special ed law has some significant changes effective 2004.   Gotta have this one too!
Wrightslaw: From Emotions to Advocacy - The Special Education Survival GuideWrightslaw: From Emotions to Advocacy - The Special Education Survival Guide by Peter W. D. Wright
Buy used from: $7.75
If you've ever dreaded or gotten emotional at a school meeting for your child, this book is a BIBLE. 
THE LCP SOLUTION: The Remarkable Nutritional Treatment for ADHD, Dyslexia, and DyspraxiaTHE LCP SOLUTION: The Remarkable Nutritional Treatment for ADHD, Dyslexia, and Dyspraxia by B. Jacqueline Stordy
Buy new: $11.21 / Used from: $1.09
An amazing guide to a PROVEN nutritional strategy.  Works well on bipolar also
The ADHD-Autism Connection: A Step Toward More Accurate Diagnoses and Effective TreatmentThe ADHD-Autism Connection: A Step Toward More Accurate Diagnoses and Effective Treatment by Diane M. Kennedy
Buy new: $11.24 / Used from: $1.69
Our children are all unique, and the spectrum of "differing abilities" is wide.  Very insightful.
The Bipolar Child: The Definitive and Reassuring Guide to Childhood's Most Misunderstood Disorder (Revised and Expanded Edition)The Bipolar Child: The Definitive and Reassuring Guide to Childhood's Most Misunderstood Disorder (Revised and Expanded Edition) by Demitri Papolos M.D.
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The authority on bipolar disorder in children. 
Survival Strategies for Parenting Children with Bipolar Disorder: Innovative Parenting and Counseling Techniques for Helping Children with Bipolar Disorder and the Conditions that May Occur with ItSurvival Strategies for Parenting Children with Bipolar Disorder: Innovative Parenting and Counseling Techniques for Helping Children with Bipolar Disorder and the Conditions that May Occur with It by George T. Lynn
Buy new: $19.75 / Used from: $2.39
Great for bipolar, especially if combined with ADHD or other disability
Bridging the Gap: Raising a Child with Nonverbal Learning DisorderBridging the Gap: Raising a Child with Nonverbal Learning Disorder by Rondalyn Varney Whitney
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WOW!  Very insightful book.  So many diagnosis overlap...helpful strategies.
The Out-of-Sync Child: Recognizing and Coping with Sensory Processing Disorder, Revised EditionThe Out-of-Sync Child: Recognizing and Coping with Sensory Processing Disorder, Revised Edition by Carol Kranowitz
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $6.95
Did you know that Sensory Processing Disorder looks like ADHD & Bipolar disorder?  Excellent guide to understanding and helping your child, while realizing that medication is not always the answer!
The Out-of-Sync Child has Fun: Activities for Kids with Sensory Integration DysfunctionThe Out-of-Sync Child has Fun: Activities for Kids with Sensory Integration Dysfunction by Carol Stock Kranowitz
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Fun for the whole family.  You will learn what activities will best benefit your child's sensory needs.  Also gives directions on how to make some helpful "toys".
Answers to Questions Teachers Ask About Sensory IntegrationAnswers to Questions Teachers Ask About Sensory Integration by Carol Stock Kranowitz
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Short guide for teachers to the disorder.  Must have to take to your childs IEP meeting.
How Does Your Engine Run? Leader's Guide to the Alert Program for Self RegulationHow Does Your Engine Run? Leader's Guide to the Alert Program for Self Regulation by Mary Sue Williams
Buy new: $39.03 / Used from: $44.50
An occupational therapists' guide.  Will help tyou each your child the "words" to describe if he is feels "too high, just right,, too low".  Activities will be given to regulate engine speed.
An Introduction to How Does Your Engine Run? The Alert Program for Self-RegulationAn Introduction to How Does Your Engine Run? The Alert Program for Self-Regulation by Mary Sue Williams
Short guide to the above mentioned program.  A good overview.  Helpful to provide to teachers and other caregivers.
Special Diets for Special KidsSpecial Diets for Special Kids by Lisa Lewis
Buy new: $19.77 / Used from: $9.19
Perhaps your child's behavior is linked to food allergies?  Excellent resource, gives recipes and helpful websites.
Helping a Child with Nonverbal Learning Disorder or Asperger's Syndrome: A Parent's GuideHelping a Child with Nonverbal Learning Disorder or Asperger's Syndrome: A Parent's Guide by Kathryn Stewart
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The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible ChildrenThe Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children by Ross W. Greene
Buy new: $10.04 / Used from: $4.26
Great book.  Helps you to prioritize the issues that are really worth "fighting" about.
Our FAScinating Journey: Keys to Brain Potential Along the Path of Prenatal Brain Injury, Second EditionOur FAScinating Journey: Keys to Brain Potential Along the Path of Prenatal Brain Injury, Second Edition by Jodee Kulp
Buy new: $24.95 / Used from: $9.00
Adoptive mom's guide to prenatal alcohol exposure. ANY  alcohol ingested during pregnancy can result in learning & behavioral differences.  Alternative therapies researched and discussed.
The Best I Can Be: Living with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome-Effects (Revised) (Mom's Choice Awards Recipient)The Best I Can Be: Living with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome-Effects (Revised) (Mom's Choice Awards Recipient) by Jodee Kulp
Buy new: $11.65 / Used from: $3.51
Adoptive daughter's guide to LIVING with prenatal alcohol exposure.  Very short, helpful to share with teachers, family members who just "don't understand" this invisible disability.
When Love is Not Enough : A Guide to Parenting Children with RAD - Reactive Attachment DisorderWhen Love is Not Enough : A Guide to Parenting Children with RAD - Reactive Attachment Disorder by Nancy L. Thomas
Buy used from: $8.07
Excellent parenting guide for special needs "families".  I find it helpful for all challenging behaviors in ANY disability.
ADDitude (6 Issues)ADDitude (6 Issues)
LOVE this magazine.  Always has helpful tips for all ages of ADHD.  They publish a great little book called "ADDventures in Babysitting" - your babysitter will really appreciate it!