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BDSM resources for writing "Making a Scene"
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Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of SadomasochismScrew the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller
Buy new: $16.47 / Used from: $10.00
If you only bought one book, I'd suggest this one. Very thorough yet entertaining. Covers a lot of topics very concisely.
SM 101: A Realistic IntroductionSM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
Buy new: $16.47 / Used from: $8.23
A good basic book, although it could use an update (1996) and some better editing. Jay Wiseman is famous in the scene so all his books are good.
The New Bottoming BookThe New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy
Buy new: $10.17 / Used from: $6.95
Companion book to The New Topping Book; easy to read, down to earth. Excellent book with some scenarios of scenes/situations.
The New Topping BookThe New Topping Book by Dossie Easton
Buy new: $10.17 / Used from: $4.99
Companion book to The New Bottoming Book; easy to read and down to earth. Excellent and some interesting stuff on the spirituality of BDSM.
The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic DominanceThe Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella
Buy new: $13.63 / Used from: $10.41
This book is from the perspective of a gay Master and includes some excellent explanations of the nature of power and pain.
Consensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk About It and How to Do It SafelyConsensual Sadomasochism : How to Talk About It and How to Do It Safely by William A. Henkin
Buy new: $15.34 / Used from: $11.95
This book primarily addresses the safety issues surrounding different play activities. Very helpful.
The Loving DominantThe Loving Dominant by John Warren
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $10.90
Good sections on the philosophy of submission as well as specific activities and toys.
Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and SubmissionDifferent Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame
Buy new: $15.61 / Used from: $9.88
Good info in specific activities but what makes this book different is the "interviews" with people who have experience in each area that's being covered.
The Toybag Guide to Clips and ClampsThe Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps by Jack Rinella
Buy new: $9.95 / Used from: $9.93
This is one of several delightful little books in the Toybag series. I've read most of them and they are all very good.
Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage HandbookJay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $10.00
I don't own this one but his books come highly recommended to me and I found his SM101 book to be very useful.
FloggingFlogging by Joseph W. Bean
Buy new: $9.56 / Used from: $7.50
This is another one that I don't have but it was also recommended to me.