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Queer Resource Center BDSM Book List
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Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of SadomasochismScrew the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller
Buy new: $16.47 / Used from: $10.00
Classic read. The resources in the back for Oregon are outdated, but the info timeless. especially love the comic archetypes of people to watch out for.
The New Topping BookThe New Topping Book by Dossie Easton
Buy new: $10.17 / Used from: $4.99
Love these authors. Recommend you read the Topping and Bottoming book no matter how you identify.
The New Bottoming BookThe New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy
Buy new: $10.17 / Used from: $7.99
See notes on Topping book. These are amazing and should be read together.
Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope BondageTwo Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Two Knotty Boys
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $10.06
Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic MacraméShibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé by Lee "Bridgett" Harrington
Buy new: $19.79 / Used from: $18.78
Love this book. Wonderful presenter, easy to learn style and pictures for each step. Good info on safety and rope decisions also.
Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage HandbookJay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $10.00
If you like verbose and safety fetishism, Jay's your guy. This has a lot of useful info, but not so much on the pictures.
SM 101: A Realistic IntroductionSM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
Buy new: $16.47 / Used from: $10.50
Beyond VanillaBeyond Vanilla
Buy new: $26.99 / Used from: $10.95
Secretary (2002) [VHS]Secretary (2002) [VHS]
Buy used from: $3.95
Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and PracticeLeatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, and Practice by Mark Thompson
Buy new: $17.00 / Used from: $7.93
This reader covers so much from so many angles. I love the spiritual aspects a lot of it's writers contribute.
Sex Changes: The Politics of TransgenderismSex Changes: The Politics of Transgenderism by Pat Califia
Buy used from: $18.99
Public Sex: The Culture of Radical SexPublic Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex by Pat Califia
Buy used from: $9.74
Rough Stuff: Tales of Gay Men, Sex ,and PowerRough Stuff: Tales of Gay Men, Sex ,and Power by Pat Califia
Buy used from: $23.00
Macho Sluts: Erotic FictionMacho Sluts: Erotic Fiction by Pat Califia
Buy used from: $5.00
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual PossibilitiesThe Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities by Dossie Easton
Buy used from: $4.93
This is one of the few readers that can be found peer reviewed on polyamory. the authors also include transgender and queer people.
The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex: A Complete Resource for Women and MenThe Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex: A Complete Resource for Women and Men by Karlyn Lotney
Buy used from: $5.55
Fakir Musafar: Spirit + FleshFakir Musafar: Spirit + Flesh by Fakir Musafar
Buy used from: $40.99
Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and SubmissionDifferent Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame
Buy new: $15.61 / Used from: $9.91
Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal PathDark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path by Raven Kaldera
Buy new: $24.30 / Used from: $22.00
Pagan Polyamory: Becoming  a Tribe of HeartsPagan Polyamory: Becoming a Tribe of Hearts by Raven Kaldera
Buy new: $12.71 / Used from: $4.94
When Someone You Love Is KinkyWhen Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $9.24