Product Description

New tools for old rules! An entertaining Instructional and Self Improvement DVD for Table Manners and Table Etiquette. Great for all ages. Paul Dreher brings his talent to the masses with his educational DVD. He covers all of the essentials from everyday dining to formal affairs and presents it in the easiest form of learning, demonstration. In about 30 minutes, you'll have the table manners and table etiquette rivaled by none.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #49972 in DVD
• Released on: 2007-08-01
• Format: NTSC
• Number of discs: 1
• Running time: 30 minutes

Review
I thought formal table manners had become a dying art, until..Paul Dreher. Between his expertise, personality, knowledge, humor, charm and incredible demonstrations, he made learning table etiquette a fun, effortless and easy technique for me and my family. We can apply everything he taught us not only to formal dining settings, but to our everyday life as well. --Dean and Shannon Factor, Smashbox Cosmetics

Review
Paul Dreher's engaging and innovative techniques offer a comprehensive instructional guide to etiquette dining. His charming personality and clever wit enables students, regardless of age, to learn from his extensive presentation. --Johnnie Savoy, Founder/CEO College Bound

About the Actor
Put your napkin on your lap, Paul is bringing proper back! Paul Dreher is a premier authority on the do's and don'ts of Table Manners and Table Etiquette. Why? Because Paul has over 28 years experience in the billion dollar catering industry working at one of the most prestigious hotels in the world, the Beverly Hilton Hotel, home of the Golden Globe Awards. Paul has observed nearly 3 million people eat...including the most prominant celebrities of all time from Lucille Ball and Barbra Streisand to Frank Sinatra. In addition to being accomplished in the world of catering, Paul has been teaching his TMATE classes for 5 years for groups such as College Bound, YWCA, Job Corp, and Dean and Shannon Factor of Smashbox Cosmetics.

Customer Reviews

Dining Info Needs Work
Mr. Dreher included some good information in his DVD that I did not think to include in my DVD's, "American Dining & Entertaining Etiquette; Manners for the Table," and "American Etiquette for a Formal Party; Manners for the Hosts, Guests and Catering Staff," when I created them in 1998 and 1999 respectively. Therefore, I would recommend that anyone interested in getting as much knowledge as he or she can about table manners or other general etiquette, purchase this video.

However, Mr. Dreher got a few things wrong on the 'dining' aspect of his DVD. For example, if anything is passed at the table, bread, butter, etc., it should be passed counter clockwise around the table using the hand over hand method. (See my first mentioned DVD.) Mr. Dreher passed the roll basket in a very awkward fashion which is not correct.

Also, soup should be eaten from the side of the bowl. Mr. Dreher ate his from the tip.

Since I was born in 1943, raised by parents who dined in a formal style every night and at the dining room table after church on Sunday, was a sorority girl in 1961, my mother's sorority, and was a Home Economics major in college, I was taught the American style of eating, which, since I am a proud American, I use to eat my meals today. Mr. Dreher didn't seem to know the American style of dining particulary well, or if he did, he sure didn't spend much time on the nuances of it.

The man guest in the video, for example, put his knife onto the place mat after he had used it!!! Horror of all horrors. Perhaps Mr. Dreher didn't notice this or perhaps he didn't want to embarrass the man, but this is a very big, "NO, NO!" Again, for the correct placement of utensils while dining, see either or both of my DVD's.

For the placement of the knife and fork at the end of the meal, Mr. Dreher had them up at the top of the plate. I learned they should be at the 4:20 position on the plate (think of your plate as a clock) to signal the waiter that the diner is through with his meal. I also go into the European way to show a finished position in my DVD's.

The napkin should be placed on the chair if the diner gets up in the middle of the meal while others are still dining, I think Mr. Dreher covered this verbally, but it should be placed to the left of the plate at the end of the meal when all diners are getting up from the table. No folding necessary.

Whether you use the American or the European style of dining - both are correct, by the way - elbows should be at the side of your body. Also, I learned that one's hand, in my case the left hand, should be placed in my lap while I am using my right hand with the fork in it to eat my food. There are a couple of thoughts on this but the true American way of dining is to place the hand that is not holding the fork in your lap. The knife should be placed across the upper right hand area of the plate with the blade turned down when actually eating.

One of the things that Mr. Dreher mentioned that I did not think of when I produced my DVD's was Dress Code, what to wear when asked to a party. This is probably the most commonly asked question I get on my emails and it is a tough one. Since nobody seems to know the 'offcial' dress codes anymore, hosts make up some of the most interesting names for the attire that they want their guests to wear. It never ceases to amaze me what terminology they use for attire.

Mr. Dreher suggested that the guest ask the host what to wear if there isn't a designated dress code on the invitation. I say, unless you are VERY sure that you know exactly how your host wants you to dress, ask your host what to wear when you call to RSVP. Nobody wants to show up in blue jeans and a tattered "T" shirt when everyone else is in dressy attire, or vice versa

Again, I would recommend Mr. Dreher's DVD. On our products' sites on Amazon, it appears that Amazon is recommending that people buy my DVD's as well as Mr. Dreher's. I would recommend that also as well as my booklet, "Tips on Modern American Dining Etiquette," which covers even more information than either of my DVD's or Mr. Dreher's.

Thank you, Mr. Dreher, for joining the fight to teach Americans some of the finer facts about etiquette!!! Good for you.

Tastefully Done!
This video was so practical and easy to understand. I walked away with easy-to-remember tips that I am still sharing with colleagues and children alike! The video kept my attention the entire time - never a boring moment. Not only is it evident that Paul Dreher is an expert in his field, but he knows how to present the information in a way that is interesting and fun!

Fantastic!!
How did this genius know that the world needed this? I have watched this video multiple times along with my children and grandchildren, and each time we pick up something new! I will never be confused again at a dinner party. The table settings were beautiful and I loved the way he brought back "family" dinner time. The world needs a lot of that. I will never have to fear again that my manners are sub-par at any event, because we will be practicing this at home daily! Thank You Paul Dreher!