Product Description

“Just be yourself!” People say it all the time, but how do we actually live it?

For more than a decade Matthew Kelly has been helping people discover the best version of themselves. Now, in Perfectly Yourself, he addresses the opportunities and obstacles that we encounter once we decide to ask life’s big questions: Who am I? What am I here for? Focusing on nine powerful and practical lessons, Kelly shows us how to find lasting happiness in a changing world.

We all have an insatiable need to grow and improve: Every year millions of us buy books and attend workshops in the hope that we will lose weight, improve our relationships, conquer debt, accomplish more in our careers, achieve financial independence, reach spiritual enlightenment, become better parents or lovers–the list goes on. We yearn for progress. And yet, many of us fail to achieve the transformations we desire.

“People don’t fail because they want to fail,” Kelly explains. “People don’t go on a diet because they want to get fat. People don’t get married to get divorced. Whether we are dealing with health and wellness, relationships, finances, spirituality, or career, people want to advance. Personal development animates us, brings us to life. In many cases one diet is as good as the next. One financial plan is as good as another. People are smart enough to work out which are the best, but still so many fail. We have to ask ourselves: Why?

“Fundamental to all transformation is understanding the dynamics of change so that we can be aware of the obstacles and opportunities that await us when we attempt to transform an area of our lives.”

Kelly teaches us how to find the balance between accepting ourselves for who we are and challenging ourselves to become all we are capable of being. He encourages us to unify the many aspects of our lives, and reveals how to move beyond other people’s expectations of who and what we should be.

Perfectly Yourself is for anyone who has ever failed at a diet, survived the collapse of a relationship, or wondered if he or she will ever find a fulfilling career. It’s a book for all of us who long to be at peace with who we are, where we are, and what we are doing, not in some distant tomorrow but here and now–today.


From the Hardcover edition.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #15480 in Books
• Published on: 2008-02-26
• Released on: 2008-02-26
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 240 pages

From AudioFile
Advertising, cultural prescriptions, and even piano lessons can keep us from being ourselves, says the resonant workshop leader and personal change author. More about self-acceptance than getting things done, this production urges us to applaud our efforts even when they fall short and to discover our individual melodies instead of reading music written by others. His nine lessons are more meditative than prescriptive. Without self-acceptance, our change efforts will work against our true natures and run into too much resistance to ever succeed. Clear tones and relaxed pacing make the author's voice sound especially rich. He sounds psychologically inviting, respectful toward his listeners, and open to connecting with them. T.W. Winner of AudioFile Earphones Award © AudioFile 2007, Portland, Maine-- Copyright © AudioFile, Portland, Maine

Review
Praise for The Rhythm of Life

“I loved this book! It provides significant insights into living a happier, healthier, more rewarding life.”
–Dr. Stephen R. Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

“The Rhythm of Life is a treasure for all those who dare to believe that there is a best-version-of-themselves. . . . Miss it at your peril!”
–Ken Blanchard, co-author of The One Minute Manager

“Matthew Kelly shows us how to find lasting happiness in a changing world . . . and how to fall in love again . . . with life. His message is both timely and timeless.”
–Hal Urban, author of Life’s Greatest Lessons

Praise for The Seven Levels of Intimacy

“A highly readable, well-written book that contains deep wisdom and practical guidance about relationships that will be useful to everyone seeking genuine and durable intimacy, especially couples. I highly recommend it.”
–Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples


From the Hardcover edition.

About the Author
Matthew Kelly is the author of several books, including The Rhythm of Life and The Seven Levels of Intimacy. His books have appeared on multiple bestseller lists including those of The New York Times, USA Today, and The Wall Street Journal. For more than a decade Kelly has been traveling the globe, and three million people in more than fifty countries have attended his seminars. One of the great emerging voices of our time, Kelly is the founder of The Matthew Kelly Foundation, whose major charitable work is to help young people discover their mission in life. Kelly is also the president of Dream Manager Consulting, a Chicago-based consulting company that helps corporations and individuals identify and live their dreams.


From the Hardcover edition.

Customer Reviews

Better than Dr.Phil
Matthew Kelly is hands up or down better than Dr. Phil. His writing is inspirational for any age. Everyone I turn on to his writings is amazed and can't get the next book quick enough. Try one and you will end up wanting to read them all.

Perfectly yourself
Wonderful book. It helped me when I was under confusion. The methods work on me. I would recommend this book to readers.

100% recommended
I really enjoyed this audio book!!! It came to my life in moment I really needed it. On this audio book he is the one talking and I must say he has a very pleasant and engaging tone. He offers practical advice from a very realistic point of view!