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Books on Relational Leadership
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Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQEmotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman
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The book that first challenged the transactional model of leadership based upon individual brilliance. It recognized the value of leadership as a relational process to evoke engagement and commitment
First, Break All the Rules: What the World's Greatest Managers Do DifferentlyFirst, Break All the Rules: What the World's Greatest Managers Do Differently by Marcus Buckingham
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An evidence-based book demonstrating the performance benefits of relational leadership. In this captivating and engaging read, Buckingham and Coffman show how good leadership taps individual identity, is relational, and demands accountability.
The Performance ConnectionThe Performance Connection by Dennis Dewilde
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The book that explains how to create conditions of mutual advantage within an organization in order to meet the needs of the business (Business Inc.) and the needs of the individual (ME Inc.).
12: The Elements of Great Managing12: The Elements of Great Managing by Harter, Rodd, James K. Wagner
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In this expanded dialogue about the 12 elements of great managing, as identified in “First, Break all the Rules”; authors Wagner and Harter bring each element to life through shop-floor stories interwoven with Gallup’s foundational research that provides the elements’ psychological underpinning.
The Dream ManagerThe Dream Manager by Matthew Kelly
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Putting a relational twist on the management process, this story not only explores a new way for employees to find meaning (realization of their dreams) in their work, it shows how recognition and accountability are also critical.
Primal Leadership: Learning to Lead with Emotional IntelligencePrimal Leadership: Learning to Lead with Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
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Transference of positive emotions (resonance) drives organizations to higher performance, conflicting emotions drive dissonance and limit performance according to authors Goleman, Boyatzis, and McKee; thus, leadership is far more relational than transactional they tell us.
Credibility: How Leaders Gain and Lose It, Why People Demand It, Revised EditionCredibility: How Leaders Gain and Lose It, Why People Demand It, Revised Edition by James M. Kouzes
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Starting with the headline, “Leadership is a Relationship”; Authors Kouzes & Posner demonstrate that Credibility is the foundation of any sound relationship, but particularly between leaders and their constituents.
The SPEED of Trust: The One Thing that Changes EverythingThe SPEED of Trust: The One Thing that Changes Everything by Stephen M.R. Covey
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Trust may be the missing ingredient for the relational management model to succeed, but Trust (confidence + credibility) is an outcome, not an input. To get a Trust outcome requires the right inputs and in this book, Stephen M. R. Covey, tells us what trust means as well as provides plenty of examples of how important trust is when it comes to delivering business performance.
The Fred Factor: How passion in your work and life can turn the ordinary into the extraordinaryThe Fred Factor: How passion in your work and life can turn the ordinary into the extraordinary by Mark Sanborn
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Every day, in every individual interaction, we have a choice; a choice to make the interaction transactional or relational. That choice will make all the difference in the world to the quality of our lives.
Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are HighCrucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High by Kerry Patterson
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In this example filled guide to crucial confrontations – those times when holding someone accountable is critical to what is important to you – the authors present a relational model for what to do as you become aware of a gap between your expectations and what has or is happening in the specific situation.
Abolishing Performance Appraisals: Why They Backfire and What to Do InsteadAbolishing Performance Appraisals: Why They Backfire and What to Do Instead by Tom Coens
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For organizations that want responsible employees, this book challenges leadership to consider the basic ‘parental’ or ‘patriarchy’assumptions that drive traditional HR performance appraisal processes.
Encouraging the Heart: A Leader's Guide to Rewarding and Recognizing OthersEncouraging the Heart: A Leader's Guide to Rewarding and Recognizing Others by James M. Kouzes
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If you believe that money is the prime motivator of exceptional performance, you may want to spend a few quiet hours with this easy-to-read, how-to manual for getting to the heart of individual performance. This book is recommended for anyone wanting to learn a foundational process for relational leadership.
The 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to GreatnessThe 8th Habit: From Effectiveness to Greatness by Stephen R. Covey
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As with most of the Covey books, there are nuggets of wisdom hidden within this book, the challenge is to find them. The 8th Habit, (defined as ‘Find Your Voice and Inspire Others to Find Theirs’), attempts to teach one basic paradigm: That people are whole people – body, mind, heart and spirit, but the focus in on the voice.
Getting Them to Give a Damn: How to Get Your Front Line to Care about Your Bottom LineGetting Them to Give a Damn: How to Get Your Front Line to Care about Your Bottom Line by Eric Chester
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Reflecting common sense, as well as a sense of humor, Chester delivers means and methods to address front-line worker’s all important relational needs for purpose, identity, and accountability.