Product Description

Hey, Divas! Are you ready to take control of your lust life --and your man? How To Be A Dominant Diva serves up 69 frisky, seductive sex games designed to help you do just that. By opening our revolutionary Doors of Desire, you and your lover will possess all the tools necessary to explore eroticism, role-play and power exchange in a way that's exciting but never intimidating. And once you master our tips and tricks, not only will you have your man's full attention --you'll hijack his every thought even when you’re not around!

Each sexy scenario includes detailed instructions, a list of passion props, and goddess tips guaranteed to send you both into orgasmic overdrive. Need a visual aid? The flirtatious photos found throughout this book will both encourage and invigorate you. Game on!

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #78196 in Books
• Published on: 2005-12
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 304 pages

From the Publisher
*Features gorgeous, sexy black-and-white photos

*Innovative gatefold design that no sex book has ever used before

About the Author
Julie Taylor has written over 100 sex and relationship features for major magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Redbook, and Glamour.

Georgia Payne is one of America's most prominent dominatrixes with a large clientele in both Los Angeles and New York.

Julie and Georgia have been best friends for over 10 years.

Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved.
We want to let you in on a little secret: There’s nothing better than taking control of your sex life and your man. It’s so empowering to know that you’re not only in charge of your own O, but can easily take charge of his, too! Long gone are the days of women just lying there in missionary position like dead fish, waiting for the guy to finish. (How depressing!) We’re two women who firmly believe sex should be fun and fearless. Sure, we’re into toys and totally love our vibrators, but we also believe there’s no substitute for the real deal—especially when it both curls your toes and boosts your bond. In our opinion, the sex suffers (and sucks!) if you and your partner don’t feel free to express yourselves in every way. So that’s what we intend to help you do…step-by-step, game-by-game, and orgasm-by-orgasm. Join us on this Dominant Diva journey, and your sex life will never be the same!

Why us? Over the years, we noticed that we were having much better sex than our friends. And our gal pals were always asking how they too could mix things up between the sheets. And once we shared a few tips and tricks, the response was always the same: "Ohmigod, I had the best sex last night!" Soon, more friends…and friends of friends…began to call for nuggets of our wow-oh-wow wisdom. Something about our sex advice clicked with women. Maybe it was because our experiences complemented each other so well. You see, we’ve been best friends for more than 10 years. When we met, we were both waitresses, but soon we started serving people in different ways. Georgia was the first to take the leap: She became a dominatrix in 1994, and went on to become one of the top dommes in both Manhattan and Los Angeles. Julie wrote her first sex and relationship feature for Cosmopolitan in 1995, and has been making her living sharing sex advice ever since in magazines such as Cosmo, Redbook, and Glamour.

For the past decade, Georgia has counseled thousands of couples on how to explore their fantasies, and is paid upward of $300 an hour to help them do just that. Julie has educated millions of readers on such titillating topics as "Finding His Secret Sex Spots" and "Unleashing Your Inner Sex Kitten." We even did a dominatrix session together once—and held a spanking contest on the guy’s ass! We’re best buds who tell each other absolutely everything—including things that would even make the "Sex and the City" girls blush! And every time we’d dish about a new sex technique, fetish, or position, we’d inevitably try it on our husbands and then compare notes. If it earned our seal of approval, we’d tell our girlfriends, to further spread the love. (We’re firm believers in good orgasm karma!) But, the more we shared our unique sex advice with others, the more obvious it became that we had stumbled upon an unbeatable erotic equation: Dominatrix Secrets + Sex Writer Wisdom = ! Hot Dominant Diva Sex! We just knew we were on to something major…and we wanted to share our secrets with the world. Thus, How to Be a Dominant Diva was born. Together, we compiled our 69 favorite sex games so you can get in on the fun, too. These are the best of the best—culled from Georgia’s client history, Julie’s magazine sex features, and our own erotic experiences. We give you step-by-step instructions, breaking each game into hands-on sections like Passion Props, The Set-Up, and Game On! We also took some kick-ass photos to inspire you. Just swing open the Doors of Desire and dive into your next sexual adventure! In your hot little hands, you now hold the sex secrets of one of America’s most successful dominatrixes and a leading sex writer. What happens when you incorporate our tell-all, tantric tricks into your own sexual repertoire? You’re about to find out, Diva! But first, invest in some fire-retardant sheets, because things are gonna get hot. Really hot. And that’s a promise!

Customer Reviews

This Guide is like an American Version of 1001 Arabian Nights
While this guide to adult love making bliss has only 69 games to play in the lover's bedroom, there is plenty of opportunity to add variations and eventually reach a goal of 1001 nights of exquisite sexual pleasure. The authors state their purpose as:
"We want to let you in on a little secret: There's nothing better than taking control of your sex life and your man. It's so empowering to know that you're not only in charge of your own O, but you can easily take charge of his too!"
The two authors were both waitresses when they met but before long Georgia became a dominatrix. Julie became a sex advisor for various media. The women tested each new sex technique, fetish, or position they discovered on their husbands and then "compared notes. If it earned our seal of approval, we'd tell our girlfriends and spread the love." Together they compiled their favorite sex games so their readers can get in on the fun too. They chose the games from their experiences as a very successful Manhattan and L.A. dominatrix as well their magazine sex features and their own kinky love lives.
Unlike most of the books on this subject, this one is jam-packed with detailed sexual role-playing games. The authors take the reader into a world that even the women in "Sex in the City" probably have not even dreamed about, much less experienced.
One only has to read, or better yet, try a couple of the games described in this guidebook to know the authors really do know their subject. Sample games include titles such as "Dirty Dancer," "Naked Sushi," "Master of Disguise," Naughty Nurse," "Sex Spa," "Take Me to the Drive-In," "Boss Lady," and "Caught and Cuffed."
This 282 page book is large format, beautifully illustrated with tasteful, erotic photographs (surprise, surprise), has an interesting, unique layout and the book is fun and if it doesn't make the reader laugh, they will at least giggle while they explore a whole new world of erotic adventures. The book also gives good advice about safe sex, the correct way to do some of the techniques so as not to cause damage to yourself or your partner and the variety of sex toys that can be introduced into many of the lovemaking games. This book is one of the best hands-on guides available on this highly stimulating and desirable subject and none of the games would be classified as extreme or particularly dangerous. The games are designed to give the unimaginative woman step-by-step or move-by-move or orgasm-by-orgasm instruction and hopefully by the book's end, even the formerly shy novice lover will be able to soar on to new heights of sexual satisfaction by adapting these basic games into love games tailored especially for their own tastes.
It's the kind of book that could easily become a modern version of the ancient Chinese and Japanese Pillow books in that couples will keep it under their pillows for saucy inspiration in the bedroom.
This book is so good at what it says, that if the authors had offered a "satisfaction guaranteed or your money back" deal to purchasers, it's unlikely anyone would ever have wanted take them up on their guarantee. Honestly, these women know what they write is proven fact, again and again. The readers should prepare themselves to join the authors "on this Dominant Diva journey, and your sex life will never be the same." The authors also suggest that readers of the book "invest in some fire-retardant sheets, because things are gonna get hot. Really hot. And that's a promise!" And they are "oh so" correct!

Hot AND Romantic...
This book has tons of creative ideas I hadn't thought of but that are truly inspiring... I was surprised (and psyched) to see how many of the games aren't just sexy, but also super-romantic. Check out Bed, Bath and Way Beyond, for example--what woman *wouldn't* want to be pampered like that? My boyfriend *loves* this book--it's fun paging through it with him and picking out games to try together. (There are games for him as well as me, so that keeps it interesting ;)...) He was pretty excited when I brought it home, believe me--and it keeps paying off... Not just in making sex more fun, either. I swear my boyfriend is giving me more massages now, giving me more compliments and just generally paying more attention to me in and out of the bedroom. Even if you've never tried anything but vanilla sex, you'll get into this book--the games are called games because they're fun! Everything's rated from mild to wild, so you can start slow if you want--or go straight to the super-spicy... Consider me a very satisfied Dominant Diva!!

Whoa--Talk about innovative sex games!
This book has some really cool and HOT things I've never tried before...
Like downloading hot stories and songs into his iPod as a surprise (he loved it),
Involving a 1-900 operator in your sex games, like a mock menage a trois! (This was hot.)
Having him be your chauffeur...and then buzzing yourself in the backseat. (He almost crashed!)
I heard Georgia and Julie on the radio last week and then I checked out the free game on dominantdiva.com called Parking Lot Passion. Both my boyfriend and I loved it! I'm hooked! I got the book 5 days ago, and have already tried 4 games. I'm a DOMINANT DIVA.