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Never Have the Same Sex Twice: A Guide For Couples

Never Have the Same Sex Twice: A Guide For Couples
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Includes an excerpt of my story "A Girl, Two Guys and a Sex Toy"

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According to Alison Tyler, her monogamous relationship of more than ten years is “filled with extreme, kinky, varied, crazy, never-have-the-same-sex-twice sort of sex.” The secret of not getting into a sexual rut lies in the power of the imagination and pure dedication. In this distinctive guide for couples, Tyler introduces each chapter by sharing her own personal sexual experience. Following that is a short erotic story that not only instructs readers in the how's and why's but helps them visualize what they can do to invigorate their sex lives. From having a weekly date night to using sex toys to experimenting with light BDSM to erotic foreplay, this book guides couples to sexual satisfaction over and over again.


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  • Amazon Sales Rank: #63855 in Books
  • Published on: 2008-11-01
  • Original language: English
  • Number of items: 1
  • Binding: Paperback
  • 200 pages

Customer Reviews

Very sexy self help!5
I enjoyed reading Alison Tyler's latest book, Never Have the Same Sex Twice: A Guide For Couples. She chose excellent examples of erotic stories to illustrate her points, which made the book far more fun to read than most "relationship help" books. The information provided was solid, but not necessarily new information to those who have read other help books of this type. The book offers advice such as trying different rooms of the house, different locations away from home, talking to your lover about their fantasies, etc. It emphasizes the importance of communication and openness, and showing your partner that you still think they're hot stuff, whether it's been three months, three years or three decades. What makes the book special is the collection of arousing first-rate short stories for inspiration.

Never Have the Same Sex Twice is divided into 17 short chapters. Each chapter closes with an erotic short story that demonstrates the idea of the chapter. I liked Jeremy Edward's story, Le Petit Dejeuner, in the chapter about using memories, especially the juxtaposition of the loving, flowery descriptions of his lover's beauty with the dirty, graphic descriptions of the sex they have. I also liked Ronald Keller's story, the Princess and the Penis, which had a modern twist on an erotic Sleeping Beauty fantasy. Alison Tyler's short story Red Light, Green Light really showed you how to make the commute home from work a lot more fun. Rules of the Game by Thomas S Roche, in the chapter about continuing to flirt with your partner, made a fantasy game of pretending to hook up with a stranger who is really your significant other very hot. Before reading his story, that was an idea that never appealed to me.

The erotic stories motivate you to try the ideas by getting your juices flowing. I believe it can give you ideas to help you jump start a sex life that may have gotten into just a little rut, as can happen with any long term relationship. The book teaches that it's important to build anticipation to keep the passion that new relationships have going for years and years. Lastly, I enjoyed Alison's references to her own relationship of fifteen years. You can tell from the way she talks about him that her husband appreciates her and makes her feel sexy and gets the same back from her. Ms. Tyler's book is definitely not "Do as I say, not as as I do," it's "Do as I do, and have a freaking great time!"

No need for couples therapy!5
Are you one of those persons that's struggling a bit with lack of variety in the bedroom? Before you decide on couples therapy, get your eyes, head, fingers, mouth, and legs wrapped around this book! You'll be so glad you did. Alison Tyler does an amazing job of exploring various sexy frolicks to help couples add extra spice into their relationships. Before you know it, you'll be glowing from head to toe, because you and your partner will never have the same sex twice again.

An excellent self-help book combined with steamy erotica5
By melting together delicious erotica and solid advice on sex and love, Alison baked up a creation fit for a sexual gourmet.

Simple advice such as playing dress-up may seem common sense to some of her more adventurous readers but to those who are just diving into spicing up their relationship, her suggestions, stories and tips might be just the thing to set their passions ablaze.

Although the book is written from a proudly monogamous point of view, it is non-judgemental and very supportive of other relationship types, such as polyamoury. Alison writes freely about her own experiences which come from a strong, long term marriage with her husband, however I have found tips that will help all my love relationships.

The erotic stories from a variety of authors serve to underscore and highlight the themes of each chapter, adding some additional fun and heat to each. The erotica is also wonderful to read with a lover after completing a section...before trying the ideas yourself...

A great book and a must have for anyone's collection.