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All of us are looking for ways to take control of our lives, whether in our relationships, our families, our work, our health, or our future plans. Daily challenges have a way of overwhelming us, making life harder than it needs to be. The good news is that the answers are out there. And they are Easier Than You Think.

In the phenomenal bestseller Don't Sweat the Small Stuff, Richard Carlson taught millions of readers how to stop the little things in life from driving them crazy. Now, in Easier Than You Think, Carlson demonstrates how making simple yet effective changes can get our life back on course. With his unique blend of storytelling and advice, Carlson offers proven ways that even the smallest amounts of change can add up to become a fortune of difference in our lives.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #187205 in Books
• Published on: 2005-05-01
• Released on: 2005-04-26
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Hardcover
• 208 pages

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• ISBN13: 9780060758882
• Condition: NEW
• Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.
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From Publishers Weekly
Carlson, author of the bestselling Don't Sweat the Small Stuff, goes beyond the effort to minimize stress with 39 techniques for making positive changes in all aspects of life. Rather than embarking on lengthy or costly self-improvement projects, he suggests trying out smaller, simpler adjustments that he believes can make a real difference in everything from one's communication skills to peace of mind. Delivered in his trademark upbeat style, Carlson's advice is rooted in showing kindness and compassion to oneself as well as to others. He notes, for example, that a natural inclination to help can lead to taking on too many responsibilities. Learning to say no allows you to pursue a calmer and more meaningful existence. Although the author acknowledges that most people are beset by self-pity, he says that choosing to adopt a cheerful attitude each day will actually make you happier. Learning not to blame others for your troubles will provide a greater sense of control over decision making and enhance self-confidence. While many of the author's ideas are common self-help tropes (much of the book reads like an updated version of glass half-full/half-empty) that are not as easy to accomplish as they sound, Carlson has the knack of making them sound as if they are. Agent, Linda Chester. 15-city author tour.(May)
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Review
"This book can be read quickly but also consulted again and again... everyone should come away with some new perspectives. -- Library Journal

Review
"This book can be read quickly but also consulted again and again... everyone should come away with some new perspectives. (Library Journal )

Customer Reviews

Do yourself a favor.
When we're looking into self-help book, we are an easy prey for the happiness sellers. Indeed, happiness being what all of us want most, those who claim to know the way to happiness can charge a lot to divulge their secrets. In many cases, these happiness sellers will propose you new systems of beliefs, mantras to repeat to yourself throughout the day, three-day retreats, seminars, and a whole work-on-yourself agenda designed to alter your life or your consciousness in ways that will make you happy. This, of course, costs you a lot of money and the results may never come.
In fact, I think we all more or less know, intuitively, that happiness is never far away. After all, we all have experienced it in the past, perhaps when we were children or at least sporadically during our adult life, without needing any special philosophy of self-development products. It was there naturally and, believe me, it can come back just as naturally. All it takes is a small shift inside.
This book is about this shift. It gives simple, easy advice that does make an enormous difference. There is nothing mystical or transcendental about it; just small adjustments we can make in the way we relate to our thinking and to the world to get back in touch with this nice feeling, happiness, that we have lost touch with.

Life Doesn't Have to be so Hard
The subtitle really fits the book (Small Changes That Add Up to a World of Difference). In less than 200 pages, and small pages at that, Carlson gives easy adjustments for people to make in their lives. They may seem a bit simplistic at first, but that's what makes them work. Don't divorce your wife, change your job or make other huge changes, then find out life is still a rat race and you are still unhappy.
Some of the changes involve attitudes. Stop negative thinking. Pause before making a decision to think, "Is this what I've always done or what I really want?" Be kind to yourself. Recognize your stress triggers. Start a "rainy day" fund. Make a small difference in someone's life everyday.
There are 39 of these recommended changes. It seems to me that instituting even one or two would give immediate relief to someone overworked and stressed out. Gradually adopting many of these behaviors and ways of thinking could be life altering.
Yes, they may seem simplistic, but what do you have to lose? Hopefully you will lose a lot of stress that your current behavior brings you. Life doesn't have to be so hard.
I also recommend another book: The Happiness Makeover.

Carlson shows you how to make life simpler!
Loved Richard Carlson's latest book, EASIER THAN YOU THINK
(see also Sections 2, 10 and 11), but that's no real surprise because
he is one of favorite authors . . . if his name isn't familiar, then methinks
you might want to jot it down and start reading his DON'T SWEAT THE
SMALL STUFF or anything else in that series.

Carlson has the unique talent to make things simple . . . in EASIER,
his subtitle says it all: BECAUSE LIFE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE SO
HARD . . . it really doesn't, especially if you start implementing what
he mentions in his second subtitle: THE SMALL CHANGES THAT
ADD UP TO A WORLD OF DIFFERENCE.

As an example, his advice from Chapter 18, "Set Your Expectations
to Zero," hit home because of some of the stress I'm presently
encountering with a move into a new home . . . he mentioned that
when you work out, you should set your expectations to zero so
you can appreciate your body, as opposed to resenting it and
wishing you were different.

He then cites the story of a dear friend of his dad's who recently
died: Even at the very end of Wally's life, he would say, "Life
doesn't get any better than this. I have today. I have my friends. I
can breathe. I'm alive. I'm very happy to be here." And the most
beautiful part of Wally's attitude was that everyone who knew
him know that he meant every single word.

There were many other tidbits I gained from reading EASIER
THAN YOU THINK; among them:

You can make an articulate argument for either side-being grateful
or being overextended. One will lead you toward satisfaction, and
the other toward guaranteed and sustained grief. And the beautiful
part is that you get to make the choice.

If we can accept the fact that the grass is as green as it needs to be
and that it's possible for us to be happy right now, then our lives
will be easier. Focusing on what is wrong as opposed to what is right
leads to a never-ending cycle of frustration. There are things we
simply cannot change or control no matter how much we would like
to. If we let these things take over, we are choosing to make ourselves
unhappy.

One of the most powerful observations I've ever made about stress is
this: obsessing over what stresses us out can cause more stress than
what originally made us stressed to begin with. I know that's a mouthful,
but it's true. And once you see the wisdom in this statement, your life
will never be the same. It goes to the heart of what really causes stress.