Product Description

Second Edition

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #8169 in Books
• Published on: 2005-02
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 308 pages

Review
One of the great addiction researchers of our time, Dr. Carnes has turned science into practical tools of recovery. -- Vicki Pevsner, president - Pine Grove

This book should be primary reading for anyone seeking to understand addiction in the twenty-first century -- Rob Weiss, Author of Cruise Control

Review
"This book should be primary reading for anyone seeking to understand addiction in the twenty-first century."
-Robert Weiss, MSW, CSAT, Author of Cruise Control (Robert Weiss, MSW, CSAT )

About the Author
Dr. Patrick Carnes is an internationally acclaimed speaker and authority on addiction treatment. He has authored many recovery classics, such as Out of the Shadows, Don't Call it Love, A Gentle Path Through the Twelve Steps, Sexual Anorexia, and Contrary to Love. Dr. Carnes is currently the executive director of the Gentle Path program for sexual addiction recovery at Pine Grove Behavioral Center in Hattiesburg, Mississippi.

Customer Reviews

Good "Starter" Book...
The book is comprehensive, well-researched, and well-presented. I did learn a lot from the book, and I would recommend this book to other people beginning recovery from SA. The book talks about the ten types/stages of courtship and how sexual addiction can affect an addict, so you can diagnose yourself and where you're having difficulties from the charts. It also talks about how slips are like boulders falling off a hill, and there's a great illustration to explain that and how bottomlines can help you.

What was missing for me, and hence the 4 stars, was the lack of content regarding "Relationship Recovery" part. There isn't much indication on how to go about dating the right way for S&L addicts - for example, if you saw the chart and realized you have problems with "seduction" phase of the courtship, you know you have this, but the book doesn't help you to revert this, or suggest what you're supposed to do with the diagnosis, other than "abstinence".

I would say this is a great resource for Sex Addicts in Recovery, but if you are a Sex AND Love Addict in recovery - this book won't fulfill all your needs. I don't know; perhaps Carnes has written a separate book for Love Addiction that I haven't checked out yet.

I would say I'm about 85% satisfied with the information provided by the book, and roughly 70% satisfied with the purchasing of this book.

Facing Reality
Dr. Carnes is a noted authority and perhaps the premier researcher in the area of sexual addiction. His work goes back easily some twenty years. I have studied with Dr. Carnes and I can say with some authority that this may be his finest work. It is the fruit of much thought and labor. It is reality. Carl Rogers said: "Until we can accept ourselves as we really are we can't change." This book, really a work book, helps the addicted person do just that. But it doesn't stop there. The addict is able to see through the work he does that he is able, through healthy activities, to regain control of his life. This is the second edition. Dr. Carnes demonstrates not only his high standards of authorship, but his humility and ability to accept constructive criticism both from within himself and I think perhaps others, in the changes he has put into this second edition. They are well worth the effort. Dr. Carnes comes at the sexual addiction issue with clarity, research, and above all empathy. His other work "The Recovery Zone," will I think prove to be as well received as this work.

Roger L. Johnson
M.A, Th.M. LPC
Director, Day Program
Meier Clinics

super workbook in tandem with group therapy
Working through this with group therapy has been wonderful and life changing. Cannot recommend it highly enough. Get Carnes' other books as well.