Product Description

More than 95% of guys don't pick up on a woman's sex signals. Here's how to make sure you're not one of them.

You're in a crowded bar, and the hottie across the room breaks eye contact to put on lipstick. Do you assume she's:

a. Vain
b. Rude
c. Totally into you

If you've answered with anything other than c, you're dead wrong. Women are always giving off signals, and men are always missing them.

In Undercover Sex Signals, bestselling author and communications expert Leil Lowndes shows how to score on every pass, with everything from the best activity for a first date to how a guy should dress to increase his odds for sealing the deal. Learn the twenty-six undercover sex signals and the real tactics that will teach you to:

* Master step-by-step foreplay from across the room
* Use right opening phrases (not "lines"!)
* Never hear the word no again
* Look for sex in the right places
* Win in the online sex game
* Develop the "never-fail pickup"
* Understand the perfect timing for when to ask, when to kiss, when to call, and other follow-up strategies

With instructive black-and-white photography and invaluable advice, Undercover Sex Signals ensures that you'll never blow another opportunity again.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #51477 in Books
• Published on: 2006-11-01
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 256 pages

Features

• ISBN13: 9780806527932
• Condition: NEW
• Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.
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From Publishers Weekly
Guys are completely oblivious to the myriad hints and subtle indications of women who are dying to sleep with them, says Lowndes, who gives the lowdown on how guys can better execute their game by recognizing 26 different signals that women use to indicate potential sexual desire. Lowndes's underlying premise is that all women are desperately trying to get men's attentions whenever in public, but she really sticks to bars and clubs for her examples. Lowndes's writing style and voice do not help this audiobook. Her raspy and deep voice brings images of an older, cigarette-smoking woman, which is not a bad thing, but not particularly convincing to the audience (men who need to be convinced attractive women want them). While cheesy punch lines and excessive hyperbole may work well within the printed text, on audio these lines fall short and evoke eye rolls. A professional narrator might have overcome these inhibitors, but Lowndes's tone evokes the faux enthusiasm often encountered with salespeople. ACitadel Press paperback. (Oct.)
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Review
If you'd like to rejection-proof your approaches with women, you should invest in Leil Lowndes' book...her advice is priceless. -- David D'Angelo, dating expert for men and author of Double Your Dating

Provides great information on women's hard to recognize and interpret signals...easy to apply in seduction and dating situations. Highly recommended. -- Ron Louis, author of How to Succeed with Women

While men run out and spend their money on useless books with catchy titles, this handbook is the real deal! -- Neil Strauss, author of The Game

From the Publisher
Note: When first printed under the title U.S.S., this foolproof guide to never getting shot down by a woman again, was an overnight success around the world. The first small printing quickly ran out, and hundreds of men frantically wrote to the author asking where they could find a copy. Those who were lucky enough to have one were selling their copies for up to $200 on Amazon!

Mother Nature downloaded 90% of the body language reading instincts into the female of our species. And they wrongly figure men can read theirs. Wrong! This book is for the 96.7% of men in the world who don't pick up on a woman's signals that say, "I want you," or "Get lost." It is a guarantee that you'll never strike out with a woman again. You will score with every pass you make and be able to read a room full of women faster than Evelyn Wood can read a stop sign.

Undercover Sex Signals has received kudos from top leaders in the "seduction community." Neil Strauss, author of The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists, wrote: "While men run out and spend their money on useless books with catchy titles, this previously hard-to-find handbook has long been considered the real deal: one of the classic guides to helping men piece together the puzzle that is the opposite sex. They know that there's no such thing as pickup lines. True communication takes place between the lines, and this is something Leil Lowndes has dedicated her life to researching and demystifying."

Customer Reviews

OVER-HYPED PSYCHOBABBLE THAT'S ALL FILLER, NO THRILLER...
... I was really looking forward to reading this book, but page after page, it was nothing more than hot air promising to enlighten the reader on this, that and the other thing but never delivering the goods on how to actually score - all it was were her personal theories bolstered by study after study of "findings" (some of these studies involving experiments with rodents, of all things)... however, most of those findings are hardly conclusive when you take into account the most critical factor of all - what women say and what they actually do are often in conflict (the author admits this herself on page 106).

For instance, take the typical gal who bemoans the lack of decent single guys as she describes her ideal man as practically being the nerd-next-door, and yet she'll only throw herself at every "bad boy" that crosses her path. One can only conclude that women are attracted to nice guys in theory only; they're ultimately ruled by their emotions and have no control over who turns them on, no matter how they may try to intellectualize what kind of guy they claim to be attracted to.

More than anything, women have very strong survival instincts and need to feel financially secure. That mindset usually leads them right to the straight-laced, button-down type with favourable income-earning potential who can fulfill that need (usually the guy she'll marry), while being sexually attracted to an entirely different type of guy altogether (the dude that rocks her world who she'll carry on an affair with).

How do I know this? Because at least 25% of the women I meet are married (or otherwise attached) and, usually after a few drinks and a couple of frisky slow dances, they'll make it very clear to me in no uncertain terms that they're in the market for a torrid affair, no strings attached, would I be interested? The reasons vary, but usually it's because they're not physically and/or sexually attracted to their mates and, in many cases, apparently never have been.

After reading so many books on the subject of picking up women (from both male and female authors), I'm now 100% convinced that your best advice will come from guys who know from experience what it takes to score. A female can't teach you how to pick her up and close the deal because:

1) every woman's level of resistance is different - some are easy to pick up, others are next to impossible;

2) every woman's concept of male beauty and appealing characteristics varies from one to the next;

3) because they're always mindful of their reputation among their social peers, many women believe that the only way they can be picked up for a one-night stand is if they have an overwhelming physical attraction to you in the first place or are otherwise flat-out drunk - most gals are confident that their "defense shield" is impenetrable and don't take into account the smooth-talking joe with all the right moves who can charm them into the sack;

4) you can't teach "chemistry" - either it's there or it isn't, and it can only be gauged in face-to-face situations;

5) what women THINK they want in theory and what they actually find themselves attracted to in real life are, more often than not, nothing alike.

As for the body language stuff? Puh-leeze. Even the average frustrated chump would be able to decipher 90% of these so-called "undercover sex signals" (fluffing her hair? licking her lips? sticking out her chest? hello, McFly! is anyone home?).

Reading this book was like listening to someone build up an elaborate joke but forgetting what the punch line was - it just didn't deliver.

Bottom line: don't bother with books about how to pick up women written by women, because most of the time, they don't even know what they really want in the first place. They might scorn the handsome, muscular ladies' man in theory, but when they're feeling sexy and want to get their freak on, guess who they'll throw themselves at?

Best Value Book on this topic
I have read several books on this topic so far. This book to me by far is the best value in terms of cost, to read, to applicability of any of them.

The toughest part for the guys which She clearly explains up front is getting up the courage to approach a woman. And end up with that 50/50 probability of being shot down and having your confidence and ego shredded.

Leil summed up her premise quite simply. Why expose yourself to a psyche damaging experience that you dont need to? Why not approach the woman who has non-verbally communicated her interest in you and escalate your odds of successful closure?

I have to say after a single read (I plan on reading and re-reading this book till all of the information is second nature) I went to a local club. I got the primary and secondary signals from a very attractive woman EXACTLY as communicated in USS. I gave the exact counter signals Leil writes in the book. And I kid you not, I didnt have to approach the woman. SHE APPROACHED ME, and started a conversation. I ended the evening with her phone number!!!! So I can personally attest to a successful field test of the information contained within this book.

Now bear in mind, I view this book as being specifically targetted at successful first contact. I have purchased some of Leils other books and hope to extend into the post first contact successes I have already experienced with USS.

This book definitely gives you the confidence to make contact and read the opposite sex. I do hope women appreciate the additional effort us men put into our side of this equation.

***** The most helpful book I ever read on meeting women
At first I was skeptical. But after reading "Undercover Sex Signals," I'm a true believer. Women have this really strange secret body language, and Leil tells you what to look for to know if a woman is interested in you or not.

She's right on target. For a couple of weeks now i've been watching women at my favorite bar in a whole new way. Sure enough, women subtly do show either a positive or negative reaction to practically every man they see. Over the past year, I've probably lost dozens of opportunities because I was afraid to make the move. I never knew whether I'd get shot down or if they wanted me to approach them. Now I do. I can't believe I've been so naïve all these years.

Guys, if you hate getting rejected as much as I do, read this book!