Product Description

IS LOVE ONLY FOR THE YOUNG? Seniors in Love deals with the emotional, financial, physical, and other relevant issues facing seniors when considering a new, intimate relationship. Topics covered include: What is love? Should one fall in love again - at an advanced age? What will the children say? What rewards are possible? What happens when love fails? How does one express, and receive, love? Do seniors love, and make love differently?

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #1649970 in Books
• Published on: 2005-05
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 240 pages

Review
A philosophical and supportive guide to loving again in old age. -- Dr. Ruth Harriet Jacobs, author of Be and Outrageous Older Woman and ABC's for Seniors

A philosophical and supportive guide to loving again in old age. --Dr. Ruth Harriet Jacobs, author of Be and Outrageous Older Woman and ABC's for Seniors (from back cover)

A wonderful, timely, and understanding book. -- Art Linkletter, Emmy-award winning television legend and author of Old Age is Not For Sissies

A wonderful, timely, and understanding book. --Art Linkletter, Emmy-award winning television legend and author of Old Age is Not For Sissies (from back cover)

It's high time someone exploded the myth that only the young fall in love. This book tells the truth. -- Dick Van Dyke, Emmy- and Tony-award winning television, film, and theater legend

It's high time someone exploded the myth that only the young fall in love. This book tells the truth. --Dick Van Dyke, Emmy- and Tony-award winning television, film, and theater legend (from back cover)

About the Author
“Sometimes I think I made a mistake,” Robert Wolley says. “When I graduated from college I became the minister of a New England church which paid $3,600 per year. Out in California master masons were earning $30,000 a year. But I chose another way and augmented my income by writing. In graduate school I wrote magazine articles, D.J. scripts, even court papers; later I would write featured newspaper editorials and a weekly newspaper column. Eventually I did a lot of ghost writing. Perhaps laying words on words was a kind of masonry “There’s no way to equate dollars with intangible rewards, but one reward of inestimable worth, whether in my ministries or through my counseling, working with adults and children and their families, has been to be let into someone’s life and to have that person or family say, ‘You made a difference.’” Wolley had ministries in New York and Massachusetts and left the parish ministry to become the Director of Extension for the Universalist Church of America and later the Unitarian Universalist Association. His insights into the field of sociology of religion led to interim lectureships at several universities here and in Europe, and eventually to counseling institutional and industrial leaders, often dealing with interpersonal relationships and thus with individual managers’ personal concerns. “I was prepared for the role of ‘pastoral counseling,’” Wolley says. “And when I became a city’s designated ‘counselor-of-choice,’ I was prepared for that. But later, when dealing with management leaders, I was not fully prepared for what often became a concern: an individual manager’s personal situation. ‘My husband/wife and I . . .’; ‘I don’t understand my son/daughter’; ‘I can’t communicate with . . . ‘ – family issues, including marriage problems, that affected one’s day-to-day job. “Additionally, since I worked in the Deep South for two or three months each year, there were intense racial questions and great anguish. It was hard to disguise my Boston accent in Georgia, the Carolinas, Florida, Alabama, and Mississippi, yet I had to deal with both blacks and whites. In the late 1950s and 1960s it was difficult to establish trust. I was not always successful. “The times were difficult for many people, although not more so than other times in history. There was a lot going on that impacted individuals and society and a great need for understanding counseling. “The whole counseling bit began almost by accident. My first year in a Boston area college I worked a couple of afternoons and on Sundays as a youth leader in a large suburban church. A graduate student I knew worked in a Boston youth center. One night he was stabbed as he left the center. He quit his job. I applied for it and became the late weekday afternoon and evening activities director of a Boston youth center. I was a kind of counselor – without training or education, a perfect example of the ‘blind leading the blind.’ “So when I changed schools, I took every psychology and sociology course I could manage to work into my schedule and was fortunate to obtain psychology internships that greatly broadened my insights and skills – and, of course, such skills as I had were put to work almost immediately. Such work eventually took me from a part-time parish and an internship in a New York state mental hospital to two full-time parishes and a counseling role and later to businesses, to the public schools, and a Massachusetts prison – and throughout into the lives of parishioners, troubled citizens, public school children, and their families. “It is that background which allows me to write about a senior issue with which I dealt many times, as have other counselors and psychologists, but which has received little or no attention (in the hope, I guess, it will either go away or that by ignoring it, it will disappear): the concern for and about senior romance and love. “In my senior years, by people who kne

Customer Reviews

Another chance for romance
A pleasant and supportive read broken down into simple steps. It's a solid place to start for anyone thinking about taking the big step, but it offers practical advice for lovers needing a push in the right direction. It's certainly worth a read.

A true look at a little-recognized issue
Robert Wolley does an excellent job at taking us through the process of how to initiate, continue, and even deal with losing, love in our old age. This book is invaluable to people involved in working with a geriatric population, as well as to seniors who are looking to make a new start in the world. Like all his other books, Mr. Wolley gives us the feeling of first-hand knowledge being contributed to this book, making it more real and more applicable to our lives.

Good Advice and a Good Read -- What a Combination
After reading various romance and self-help books (one written by my father), this one has to be one of my favorites. The book meets the difficult challenge of being full of practical, helpful guidance without being dull. The author does this mainly through the use of various antecdotes. Whether it is the story of the psychologist seeking someone to listen to his problems, or the real estate agent saying it isn't "location, location, location," it is "I love you, I love you, I love you," these brief stories are the most endearing and captivating part of the book. The also become an indirect method by which the author passes wisdom on to the reader. I strongly recommend this book to any senior looking for romantic encouragement or guidance. This book will help you love again and will serve as a friend in your corner giving you support. A great read for any senior looking for love or a great gift for any senior you already love.