![]() | Mom's House, Dad's House: Making Two Homes for Your Child by Isolina Ricci
Buy new: $11.52 / Used from: $0.01 This book is incredibly helpful for you if you are thinking of divorce, seperated, newly divorced, or have been divorced for a long time. One great aspect of this (newer version) book is that it tries not to take sides for the mother or the father. With subjects such as legal, parenting plans, agreements, how-to's, and keeping your child FIRST, my husband and I both highly recommend this book.
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![]() | The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Unabridged Audio Program) by Simon & Schuster
Buy new: $35.96 / Used from: $15.00 If you are seeking to make your own life the best that you can, which will in-turn affect your child's life, I highly recommend this particular CD set. Play it in your car and it will change your perspective on life. Also, with Family Mission Statements and many examples of family situations, it provides an implementable set of steps that will change your (and your child's) life for the better.
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![]() | The Leader in Me: How Schools and Parents Around the World Are Inspiring Greatness, One Child At a Time by Stephen R. Covey
Buy new: $16.49 / Used from: $2.13 Stephen Covey offers some valuable insights in this book on how to proactively raise your child to be the best that he/she can be, with a focus on children. With his 7 Habits of Highly Effective People and school examples, you can proactively take these helpful lessons and apply them at home and in your life with your child. For more information, visit my review of this book.
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![]() | The Truth About Children and Divorce: Dealing with the Emotions So You and Your Children Can Thrive by Robert Emery
Buy new: $10.88 / Used from: $5.00 This was the book I found after my divorce, it offers the kind of thinking, insights, and implementable tools that parents need in this difficult time. Dr. Emery emphasizes putting children first, but even more so, based on many years of experience and insight, actually describes for parents how to do it. I highly recommend it.
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![]() | The Optimistic Child: A Proven Program to Safeguard Children Against Depression and BuildLifelong Resilience by Martin E. P. Seligman
Buy new: $9.72 / Used from: $5.18 A child development book that teaches you how to teach your child how to develop a positive and confident response. There are techniques you learn to help create and foster realistic optimism, and get your child thinking about the control he can exert in his own perceptions. A huge concept applicable to learn at a young age, or any age!
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![]() | The Best Interests of the Child: The Least Detrimental Alternative by Joseph Goldstein
Buy new: $18.09 / Used from: $3.99 A Trilogy of: Beyond the Best Interests of the Child, Before ..., and In the Best Interests of the Child: these books are "essential reading for anyone charged with the protection of children in the legal process". If you are interested in the legal determinations and how they come about, this is for you. A bit too legalese potentially for others.
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![]() | The Custody Wars: Why Children Are Losing The Legal Battle, And What We Can Do About It by Mary Ann Mason
Buy new: $18.50 / Used from: $3.00 Written to construct a framework for considering all custody issues from a child's perspective, and to offer proposals for changing how disputes are settled, the author provides a case for a "comprehensive family system". This is simply a look into the legal system, as a reference.
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![]() | Blended Families: Creating Harmony as You Build a New Home Life by Maxine Marsolini
Buy new: $10.19 / Used from: $1.35 "A strong, stable stepfamily is capable of nuturing healthy development as a nuclear family." My husband & I, married when my son from my former marriage was 2 years old, set about to proactively develop a strong, healthy household for our son, and our resulting daughter from this marriage. This journey we set on has resulted in a happy, healthy blended family. This book: a Christian "how to".
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![]() | The Five Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman
Buy new: $10.19 / Used from: $3.54 As a huge fan of the first book, this one is also well-written. Basically, each child expresses & receives love through 1 of 5 different communication styles. A parent's love language can be different from that your child, which can cause hurt/misunderstandings. Discover your child's love language & learn what you can do to effectively communicate with your child's emotions & behavior.
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![]() | Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High by Kerry Patterson
Buy new: $10.79 / Used from: $3.75 I wrote a review on this book and highly recommend it for the professional- yet, as a parent who needs to engage in emotional conversations in the best way possible- this book is perfect for you, as well. It sure has helped me in both arenas... and honestly, its harder emotionally than it is professionally. Why not learn how to communicate the best that you can?
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![]() | Kids Who Think Outside the Box: Helping Your Unique Child Thrive in a Cookie-Cutter World by Stephanie Lerner
Buy new: $10.19 / Used from: $0.01 This book is for parents who seek to help their child to achieve in what they are talented in- taking their given talents, skills, and knowing without a doubt its ok to be different. Many examples of successful people and the last half is applicable for parents.
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![]() | Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by John Gottman
Buy new: $10.08 / Used from: $4.49 This book is key for helping your child, whether you are divorced, remarried, or not-- if you are a caretaker, parent, family, or teacher, this book is great. The authors identify a five-step "emotion coaching" process to help teach your child how to recognize and address their feelings- key for your child now and for life success.
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![]() | Boundaries (When to Say YES When to Say NO To Take Control of Your Life) by Dr. Henry Cloud
Buy used from: $9.41 This book walks you through how to set Boundaries in your life. Very useful for you when dealing with your former spouse, whether you had an unhealthy relationship, are trying to set your ground, or just become a healthier person- knowing how to set Boundaries is a MUST. This, in-turn, you can also teach your children positively how to implement this key skill into their lives as well.
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![]() | Parenting With Love And Logic (Updated and Expanded Edition) by Foster Cline
Buy new: $16.49 / Used from: $13.98 My mother actually heard of this book (on Oprah, I think?) and sent it to me for my husband and I to read. It truly was an incredible experience. We both recommend this book. If you seek to raise a responsible child, who will be responsible later in life- there are great techniques in here that will help both you as a parent and your child now and when challenges arise. Great book!
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![]() | Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss what Matters Most by Douglas Stone
Buy new: $10.40 / Used from: $3.33 This book was suggested by my former husband and family, and I very highly recommend it! Along similar lines to the book above, this is wonderful to read and practice- to help you in your conversations with your former spouse for your children's best interests, your family, or any "difficult conversation" you've been dreading. A great professional book, as well. 5 stars!
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![]() | Ex-Etiquette for Parents: Good Behavior After a Divorce or Separation by Jann Blackstone-Ford
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $1.97 This book, to be honest, I just got. In hopes that my husband and my relations and communications with my former husband and his new wife, married 5 months ago, can be even better. The reviews on this book are fantastic (check it out) and I love the concept. Better communications, positive perspective and proactivity for the benefit of your child- love it!
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![]() | Collaborative Divorce: The Revolutionary New Way to Restructure Your Family, Resolve Legal Issues, and Move on with Your Life by Pauline H. Tesler
Buy new: $12.44 / Used from: $7.00 Another book I just got, it also has rave reviews and is worth checking out. "Collaborative Divorce is essential reading that will inspire you to approach divorce as a vehicle for conflict resolution, healing, and positive, long-term change." How to:
Create long-term parenting plans that work & Understand and address your children's needs.
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