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Books that helped my relationship w/my wife
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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your RelationshipsMen Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: A Practical Guide for Improving Communication and Getting What You Want in Your Relationships by John Gray
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Obviously cheesy terminology and a product of pop culture, but I was astonished at the dead-on articulation of the way men & women work.
Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts: Seven Questions to Ask Before (and After) You MarrySaving Your Marriage Before It Starts: Seven Questions to Ask Before (and After) You Marry by Leslie Parrott
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I have become a big fan of the Parrotts as a result of this book.
Men Are Like Waffles--Women Are Like SpaghettiMen Are Like Waffles--Women Are Like Spaghetti by Bill Farrel
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Less impactful than Mars/Venus, but still some helpful thoughts on the differences b/t men & women from a Christian perspective.
Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's SoulWild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul by John Eldredge
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Start of a men's "movement." Some good points at how we're wired, but I was not as impacted as others were by this book.
Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to CourtshipBoy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship by Joshua Harris
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One of the most helpful books we went through before marriage.
The Power of a Praying® HusbandThe Power of a Praying® Husband by Stormie Omartian
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I bought this before we were married and need to re-visit it now. Seems like a powerful tool for praying over specific needs of your wife.
Before You Say "I Do": A Marriage Preparation Manual for CouplesBefore You Say "I Do": A Marriage Preparation Manual for Couples by H. Norman Wright
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Went through this book with our pastor for our pre-marital counseling. Excellent prep for marriage.
For Better or for BestFor Better or for Best by Gary Smalley
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Very insightful and a short book that can be re-read several times.
If Only He Knew: What No Woman Can ResistIf Only He Knew: What No Woman Can Resist by Gary Smalley
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Ditto above.
A Celebration Of Sex For NewlywedsA Celebration Of Sex For Newlyweds by Dr. Douglas E. Rosenau
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Helpful abbreviation of the bigger version below.
How To Listen To GodHow To Listen To God by Dr. Charles F. Stanley
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Good help on prayer.
How to Know God's WillHow to Know God's Will by Charles Stanley
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Very short, so-so insights and help.
A Leader in the Making: Essentials to Being a Leader After God's Own HeartA Leader in the Making: Essentials to Being a Leader After God's Own Heart by Joyce Meyer
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Didn't like it so much. She should have just done an autobiography or a bullet-point list.
Man to ManMan to Man by Charles R. Swindoll
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Lots of short snippets that vary in length, so it's kind of hard to read through daily. I think will be more helpful when I'm a father.
Husbands Who Won't Lead and Wives Who Won't FollowHusbands Who Won't Lead and Wives Who Won't Follow by James Walker
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Recommended by our pastor and was somewhat helpful, although relies on the stereoptypes of meek/docile/stay at home mom that don't apply to most people I know.
Pillow Talk for Couples: Drawing Closer Before the Lights Go OutPillow Talk for Couples: Drawing Closer Before the Lights Go Out by Les Parrott
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Nice devotional for our first month of marriage.
The Purpose Driven LifeThe Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren
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Good daily devotional that is faith building.
A Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual IntimacyA Celebration of Sex: A Guide to Enjoying God's Gift of Sexual Intimacy by Douglas E. Rosenau
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Very helpful.
Men's Relational ToolboxMen's Relational Toolbox by Gary Smalley
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Interesting approach to help guys get more in tune with their emotions. Somewhat simplistic, and the analogies get stretched too far at times, but overall is effective.
Waking the Dead: The Glory of a Heart Fully AliveWaking the Dead: The Glory of a Heart Fully Alive by John Eldredge
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Going through this book with a "couples group" at church.
Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in MarriageSheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage by Kevin Leman
Buy new: $10.19 / Used from: $8.65