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Though Old Testament law permitted divorce--the Lord himself, figuratively, went through a divorce--by the time of Jesus, Jewish men were abusing this law by divorcing wives "for any cause." This book answers the questions: In which situations does the New Testament permit divorce? Are divorced Christians who have remarried "living in adultery"? Church dogma often targets the wounded, rejecting the very ones who need Christ's healing touch, thereby further complicating the pain and rejection of these wounded ones. While not encouraging frivolous marriage dissolutions, this book deals with the issues of divorce and remarriage from a biblical perspective--looking below the surface of what some have SAID the Bible teaches--to understand the obvious intent of Scriptural passages which deal with these issues.

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• Amazon Sales Rank: #522593 in Books
• Published on: 2002-07
• Original language: English
• Binding: Paperback
• 105 pages

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• ISBN13: 9780916938062
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...the best and most sensible book I have ever read on the subject. -- Michigan.

A copy of your book was recently loaned to me.... I found it to be very helpful in my study of this vital topic.... I appreciate the fresh, honest, and clear presentations of what the Scriptures teach on this important concern for the church. -- pastor, Nebraska.

I just finished your book "Divorce and Remarriage" and think it is the best on that subject that I have found. Like all your studies it is deep but easy to read. Keep up the good work. -- minister, Pennsylvania

I think [your book] is tops...a friend of mine was blessed by the book-not only as to the subject of divorce, but in lessons learned as to how to study, interpret and apply scriptures in other areas. -- minister/writer, Iowa

I thoroughly benefited from your book....I thank God that you have care and courage enough to refute the legalist posture regarding this controversial issue. A great many believers (myself included) have suffered unspeakable agonies at the hands of some of our own brothers in Christ....Your book has released a heavy load of fear and guilt which I have carried as a special burden before God for too many years. Thank you so much for caring enough to write it. It will make a significant difference in the way I serve our Savior from this day forward. -- Colorado.

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I have read every one of your books. They are excellent. But the book on "Divorce and Remarriage" has been an eye opener and should be in the hands of teachers and ministers. I could hardly put it down.... Thank God for people like you who will go a step further and search the scriptures daily to see if "these things are so." You have a precious spirit and though we haven't met, there's a rejoicing in my heart and a bond of Christian love for you. -- California.

From the Author
DOES GOD REQUIRE DIVORCE? A man in Indiana became interested in the Bible through listening to a radio program. He sent off for free literature. What he read and heard seemed to make a lot of sense, so he requested a visit from church representatives. When they quizzed him about previous marriages, he explained that while he was still in his teens he had a brief marriage; that he had now been married to his present wife for twenty years; that they had three children. He was told that he was living in "adultery"; that in order to be a part of God's "one true church," he would have to divorce his present wife and go back to his first wife-or live single. To go back to his first wife was impossible, so he moved into an apartment across town where he spent a frustrated, miserable, lonely existence apart from his wife and family. Sadly, one day he was found dead in his closet-he had hung himself!

Why do some teach that God requires divorce? This idea is based, supposedly, on the words of Jesus: "Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, commits adultery" (Matt. 19:9). At the time of Jesus, many of the Jews practiced a type of divorce, popularized by Rabbi Hillel, known as divorce "for every cause." Such had become a mere excuse for immorality. When the Pharisees sought to put Jesus on the spot, they asked if it was lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause. In his reply, Jesus called it just what it was: adultery (see Matt. 19:3-11).

Today, by taking the words of Jesus out of their proper setting, some have gone to the other extreme. They argue that there are never any Biblical grounds for divorce and remarriage; that God recognizes only "first" marriages; that all remarried people are living in adultery.

If the statement of Jesus was an inflexible rule intended to cover all kinds of divorce-allowing no ground, no forgiveness-then it would be true: a remarried man would have to break up his present marriage (get a divorce) and go back to his first wife. If she has remarried, she would have to get a divorce. But clearly, this teaching, instead of curing divorce, would actually cause divorce!

If a man has gone through a divorce and must live the rest of his life single, alone, how would we explain Genesis 2:18: "It is not good that the man should be alone"?

In the Bible, Old Testament and New, no one was forbidden marriage. At Corinth, known in the ancient world as a very immoral city, many people had found the Lord-including married people, remarried people, single people, virgins, and widows. Marriage was forbidden to none: "Let EVERY man have his own wife, and let EVERY woman have her own husband" (1 Cor. 7:2). According to Paul, forbidding to marry was a "doctrine of devils" (1 Tim. 4:1-3).

Some at Corinth, having become Christians, were now married to unbelievers-they were saints married to sinners! They wondered if sexual relations in such a marriage were unholy and even if children born to such relations would be unholy. Their question was not so much "does God permit divorce?"-rather, "Does God require divorce-the divorce of an unbelieving spouse?" Notice Paul's answer:

"If any brother has a wife that believes not, and she is pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. And the woman which has a husband that believes not, and if he is pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him" (1 Cor. 7:12,13). Children born from such unions were not unholy (verse 14). God did not require divorce.

On the other hand, in certain circumstances, divorce was permitted. Paul goes on to say that if the unbeliever is not pleased and decides to depart, to "let him depart, a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases" (1 Cor. 7:15)-that is, the believer is no longer bound to the marriage.

There are some who suppose that no matter how miserable their marriage is, no matter how many atrocities they face, that God requires them to forever remain in that situation! A woman may face the threat of AIDS, not only for her, but unborn children; nevertheless, there are legalists who insist she should become a marital martyr!

Make no mistake about it: Marriage for life-not divorce-is the ideal. Divorce is a major surgery. As with a physical affliction, a wise doctor will first try to treat the affliction with methods less drastic. So is it with divorce. It is a last resort alternative. But, by God's grace, there can be life after divorce.

From the Back Cover
Did You Know That: The Lord himself went through a divorce? Out of the 23,214 verses in the Old Testament, there is only one against divorce-and that one verse has a strong variant reading in the oldest manuscripts? In some circumstances God actually commanded divorce? Some of the Jews were divorcing "for every cause" and it was this type of divorce, primarily, that Jesus condemned? The idea that "fornication" means sexual sin committed only by unmarried people is not the biblical definition? Forcing celibacy on anyone-including people previously married-is contrary to New Testament doctrine?

Customer Reviews

The most inclusive book on divorce
This book includes all references in the Bible about divorce and how the divorce and remarriage issue needs to be considered by the complete context of a Biblical view of God's forgiveness. It is a reference book that everyone who has been touched by divorce and remarriage needs to read. Most writers pick and choose passages to prove their point of view, but this writer includes all of the verses plus a historial backgroung for this book. It is also a very easy read.

Best I've Read on the Subject
This book is the voice of sanity! Having read books on the subject of divorce and remarriage from the nonsensical viewpoint of the legalists, this book is like a breath of fresh air and common sense!

Truly a blessing!
This book is truly a blessing for those burdened by guilt and shame (some inflicted by others and some self-inflicted). Mr Woodrow, as is his style with his other books that I have read, uses clear, concise explanations to take us through the Holy Scriptures and cut through the legalists' self-righteousness to show our God for what He truly is: ever-faithful and ever-merciful. Thank you, Mr Woodrow, for being obedient to the Holy Spirit and writing this book!