 | SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
Buy new: $16.47 / Used from: $14.06 This is a good primer and a standard often referenced and utilized by many BDSM practitioners.
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 | Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame
Buy new: $15.61 / Used from: $9.98 A classic that provides a cross-reference to many BDSM activities and first-person accounts of individuals experiencing these activities - from flogging, bondage, water-sports, and Master/slave lifestyles.
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 | Sensuous Magic: A Guide for Adventurous Lovers by Pat Califia
Buy used from: $104.68 This book provides a wonderful resource for couples and individuals wishing to experiment with BDSM activities. Factual considerations are interspersed with fictional stories to get the imagination "fired".
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 | The Lesbian S/m Safety Manual: Basic Health and Safety for Woman-To-Woman S/M (Lady Winston Series)
Buy used from: $21.00 If you're lesbian and you like BDSM, you want this book on your shelf. Welcome to my world!
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| Bondage (An Anthology of Passionate Restaint) by John Warren
Buy used from: $11.15 Bondage is a whole topic in and of itself. This is just one resource included as a reference for afficionados.
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 | The Loving Dominant by John Warren
Buy used from: $9.30 This book provides a sensual introduction for individuals seeking to engage in BDSM dominance.
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 | Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $15.06 A compilation of the other books by Miss Abernathy, it provides a concise collection for those interested in the slavery aspect of BDSM.
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 | Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual by Christina Abernathy
Buy used from: $24.44 This book tends to advocate the type of power exchange relationship that limits a person's growth - but still, a lot of individuals seek this particular power exchange dynamic and it offers a basic "how-to" with which to begin.
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 | Training With Miss Abernathy: A Workbook for Erotic Slaves and Their Owners by Christina Abernathy
Buy used from: $34.50 I like this workbook because it provides some good questions for an individual seeking slavery to begin hys/hir journey.
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 | The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella
Buy new: $13.63 / Used from: $10.00 A good start and reference for individuals wanting to engage in Dominance and Mastery.
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 | Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships by Jack Rinella
Buy new: $14.49 / Used from: $11.45 I have to admit that this is not one of Jack Rinella's better books. Although it reads well about how we as Master/slave couples share a power unlike any other, I still find it uninteresting and a boring read.
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 | Becoming a Slave by Jack Rinella
Buy used from: $83.30 I like that this book shares the very human aspects of being in relationship and strives to demonstrate and stress what constitutes a healthy power-exchange relationship.
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 | Philosophy In the Dungeon, The Magic of Sex & Spirit by Jack Rinella
Buy used from: $41.00 This book is for those seeking to engage in the spiritual aspects of relationships and to delve into the more energetic forms of power exchange through ritual.
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 | The Compleat Slave: Creating And Living An Erotic Dominant/submissive Lifestyle by Jack Rinella
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $9.76 A companion to Jack Rinella's "Master's Manual", this would be my third choice in recommending a book on slavery.
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 | My Private Life: Real Experiences of a Dominant Woman by Mistress Nan
Buy new: $11.53 / Used from: $7.77 This book is a great peak in to some aspects of the BDSM world of one Mistress. It is NOT fantasy. She has honed her skills to a point that she is an expert at the exchange of power that is paramount to a BDSM scene.
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 | The Natural Superiority of Women: Fifth Edition by Ashley Montagu
Buy new: $27.95 / Used from: $1.75 Ironically, the seminal work in the feminist movement was written by a man. "The Natural Superiority of Women", by noted anthropologist Ashley Montagu, was first published in 1952.
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 | To Love, to Obey, to Serve: Diary of an Old Guard Slave by V. M. Johnson
Buy new: $16.15 / Used from: $10.73 How can anyone NOT want to read a Vi Johnson book??? In this diary Vi offers a real life insight into the struggles and joys she went through to become the person she is... Just a great book to read
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 | The Marketplace (The Marketplace Series, 1) by Laura Antoniou
Buy used from: $54.48 Looking for Mastery/slavery at it's extreme? You can find it here. The stories of people leaving one life to start another and all that goes with it. Is it real? could be! but it is Erotic Fantasy at it's best. Five books (that need to be read in order)... A real good read
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 | The Trainer (The Marketplace Series, 3) by Laura Antoniou
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $8.99 Looking for Mastery/slavery at it's extreme? You can find it here. The stories of people leaving one life to start another and all that goes with it. Is it real? could be! but it is Erotic Fantasy at it's best. Five books (that need to be read in order)... A real good read
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 | The Academy: Tales of the Marketplace (The Marketplace Series, 4) by Laura Antoniou
Buy used from: $40.00 Looking for Mastery/slavery at it's extreme? You can find it here. The stories of people leaving one life to start another and all that goes with it. Is it real? could be! but it is Erotic Fantasy at it's best. Five books (that need to be read in order)... A real good read
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 | The Reunion (Marketplace Book 5) (Marketplace (Mystic Rose)) by Laura Antoniou
Buy used from: $40.00 Looking for Mastery/slavery at it's extreme? You can find it here. The stories of people leaving one life to start another and all that goes with it. Is it real? could be! but it is Erotic Fantasy at it's best. Five books (that need to be read in order)... A real good read
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 | The Slave (The Marketplace Series, 2) by Laura Antoniou
Buy new: $11.96 / Used from: $10.08 Looking for Mastery/slavery at it's extreme? You can find it here. The stories of people leaving one life to start another and all that goes with it. Is it real? could be! but it is Erotic Fantasy at it's best. Five books (that need to be read in order)... A real good read
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 | The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori
Buy new: $18.45 / Used from: $14.70 Midori is the current "guru" for practicing shibari. An excellent resource for bondage and techniques, as well as providing some gorgeous pictures for those of us needing some "eye candy".
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 | Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink Educational, Sensual, And Entertaining Essays by Midori
Buy new: $12.24 / Used from: $8.11 Another book I'd consider a classic and necessary addition to the BDSM library for reference.
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 | The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy
Buy new: $10.17 / Used from: $9.98 Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton provide a wonderful resource for exploring the "bottom" side of things. Good for both tops and bottoms to read and share opinions and perspectives.
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 | The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton
Buy new: $10.17 / Used from: $4.98 Dossie Easton and her partner, Janet Hardy provide the Top perspective to their Bottoming book. Good for both tops and bottoms to read.
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 | When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton
Buy new: $10.85 / Used from: $9.24 For those wanting to introduce your partner or spouse to your kinky side - this is a must-read.
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 | Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence by Dossie Easton
Buy new: $12.71 / Used from: $9.30 When you want to experience the spiritual or "tantric" aspect of BDSM this is a good start to introducing the "magic" of BDSM with ritual and energetic exchange. Exercises and experiences are shared.
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 | Lies
Buy used from: $8.00 This film is about a man's growing obsession for spanking and caning, and his resulting deceits to meet his obsession.
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 | The Pillow Book
Buy new: $22.49 / Used from: $6.37 An erotic examination of power and a woman's fetish for body writing.
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 | Flower & Snake
Buy new: $23.49 / Used from: $17.64 An exploration in extreme power and BDSM Japanese-style.
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 | Flower and Snake II
Buy new: $27.49 / Used from: $40.16 This second version considers a "consensual" version of a woman seeking the pleasure of BDSM pain.
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 | Secretary
Buy used from: $6.00 A cute exploration of BDSM "light". An exotic fun film.
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