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Getting married? Wedding books for normal women
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The Conscious Bride: Women Unveil Their True Feelings About Getting Hitched (Women Talk About)The Conscious Bride: Women Unveil Their True Feelings About Getting Hitched (Women Talk About) by Sheryl Paul
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A lot goes on emotionally for brides -- here's a book to help make sense of all the anxiety
Between "Yes" and "I Do": Resolving Conflict and Anxiety During Your EngagementBetween "Yes" and "I Do": Resolving Conflict and Anxiety During Your Engagement by Yona Zeldis McDonough
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Focusing nicely on the other relationships -- how your relationship with single friends, your parents, your siblings, even future in-laws can become strained
The Hard Questions: 100 Essential Questions to Ask Before You Say "I Do"The Hard Questions: 100 Essential Questions to Ask Before You Say "I Do" by Susan Piver
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Find out if your life goals match your fiance's -- before you get married.
Let's Elope: The Definitive Guide to Eloping, Destination Weddings, and Other Creative Wedding OptionsLet's Elope: The Definitive Guide to Eloping, Destination Weddings, and Other Creative Wedding Options by Scott Shaw
Buy new: $10.20 / Used from: $0.01
Admit it -- you've thought about eloping! Great rationale for shrugging off the traditions and having a truly memorable wedding
Beyond Vegas: 25 Exotic Wedding and Elopement Destinations Around the WorldBeyond Vegas: 25 Exotic Wedding and Elopement Destinations Around the World by Lisa Tabb
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Romantic, cool places for eloping or holding a destination wedding. And they should know -- they got married enough times!
The Budget Wedding SourcebookThe Budget Wedding Sourcebook by Madeline Barillo
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Ok, if you have to be traditional, you might as well avoid matching the national debt to get there. Great money-saving, creative ideas that don't sacrifice style and luxury.
Bridal Bargains: Secrets to Throwing a Fantastic Wedding on a Realistic BudgetBridal Bargains: Secrets to Throwing a Fantastic Wedding on a Realistic Budget by Denise Fields
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More great money-saving ideas, including everything I did wrong when I bought my gown (should have read this one earlier!)
The Everything Wedding Book: Absolutely Everything You Need to Know to Survive Your Wedding Day and Actually Even Enjoy It! (Everything Series)The Everything Wedding Book: Absolutely Everything You Need to Know to Survive Your Wedding Day and Actually Even Enjoy It! (Everything Series) by Janet Anastasio
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This book still assumes every bride has $20,000 to spare, but the back third of the book is worksheets for everything -- the ultimate organizer!
The Best Friend's Guide to Planning a Wedding: How to Find a Dress, Return the Shoes, Hire a Caterer, Fire the Photographer, Choose a Florist, Book a Band, ... Still Wind Up Married at the End of It AllThe Best Friend's Guide to Planning a Wedding: How to Find a Dress, Return the Shoes, Hire a Caterer, Fire the Photographer, Choose a Florist, Book a Band, ... Still Wind Up Married at the End of It All by Lara Webb Carrigan
Buy new: $13.25 / Used from: $0.01
A wedding planner that actually makes you laugh -- my favorite chapter is "Your Groom and What To Do With Him"
The Couple's Wedding Survival Manual: How To Tie The Knot Without Coming UnraveledThe Couple's Wedding Survival Manual: How To Tie The Knot Without Coming Unraveled by Michael R. Perry
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If you're married at the end of the day, then the wedding was a success. The rest are details. How to get married without killing your relationship
Anti-Bride Guide: Tying the Knot Outside of the BoxAnti-Bride Guide: Tying the Knot Outside of the Box by Carolyn Gerin
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The suggestions still require parting with a significant amount of money, but it does give you permission to be a little weird
Otherwise Engaged: A NovelOtherwise Engaged: A Novel by Suzanne Finnamore
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A little light reading -- if you've been watching in horror as you turn into a "bride-to-be"
From Beginning to EndFrom Beginning to End by Robert Fulghum
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Fulghum was a minister for many years, and in this book he shares some wedding rituals that reflected the couple, not the institution. I made my fiance read this one.
It Was On Fire When I Lay Down On ItIt Was On Fire When I Lay Down On It by Robert Fulghum
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Contains, among other tales, the story of the world's most disastrous wedding.
Weddings for complicated families : the new etiquette for couples with divorced parents & those planning to remarryWeddings for complicated families : the new etiquette for couples with divorced parents & those planning to remarry by Margorie Louise Engel
Buy used from: $3.99
Odds are good that either your parents or your fiance's are no longer married -- how to navigate this tricky terrain. Out of print but worth looking for
What No One Tells the Bride: Surviving the Wedding, Sex After the Honeymoon, Second Thoughts, Wedding Cake Freezer Burn, Becoming Your Mother, Screaming about Money, Screaming about In-Laws, etc.What No One Tells the Bride: Surviving the Wedding, Sex After the Honeymoon, Second Thoughts, Wedding Cake Freezer Burn, Becoming Your Mother, Screaming about Money, Screaming about In-Laws, etc. by Marg Stark
Buy new: $14.95 / Used from: $0.01
If you watched Monica from "Friends" getting even more neurotic after the wedding was over and saw yourself, this book is for you. All about what happens next.
Crib Notes for the First Year of MarriageCrib Notes for the First Year of Marriage by Everett De Morier
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It's not over yet! Making the transition from bride to wife
You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in ConversationYou Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation by Deborah Tannen
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It's said, constantly, that communication is key to a good marriage. Tannen analyzes the differences in men and women when they talk to each other
The Bride and Groom's First CookbookThe Bride and Groom's First Cookbook by Abigail Kirsch
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In case, like me, you really don't know how to cook!